Issues with dating.. taking Valtrex, do I tell or no

I am so frustrated with this.. I have had HSV2 for several years, never had an outbreak, even while stressed Now I have tested positive for HSV1 too! I could have gotten this from kissing- I know the last guy I dated gave me this. I was negative for HSV1 prior to meeting him, so when I say guys have cooties, Im not kidding. I do take Valtrex (off and on) and I have had a couple of partners the last year in which I did not tell..honestly, they didnt mean much but we were safe and I take Valtrex so didnt think it was necessary. Anyways, there are some people worth telling, some not. I want to conceive before I get any older since I am tired of dating, dont want to pay a bunch of money to use a doctor, so I do have a very nice, attractive guy who is paranoid about STDs willing to donate-natural insemination, or AI. He is recently divorced, and has a contract for me to sign and everything. We have talked alot and I know if I disclose I have herpes, he will not donate-maybe artificial insemination, but not naturally. I have not told him so Im sure this will make him upset. I have started taking Valtrex daily again, and I will stop taking it if I become pregnant. I am debating on whether or not I should tell him.. I know he wont be interested and this just pisses me off. Weve already talked about HPV, which alot of women have and he has already complained about a woman disclosing it to him after he prodded it out of her. I am thinking he can donate AI (without intercourse) and I wont have to mention it to him. He is the type to get tested every 6 months and if he turns up that he has HSV2, I can see him going after me, though it is hard to pin point who gave it to who. I wish I could prove the jerk I dated have it to me, but theres no way. ok, thoughts? Thank you.

[CJC2011]

Uh yeah, you should tell him.  You should tell everybody.  If I had sex with you and found out afterwards that you had herpes and didn't tell me, me being "pissed" would be putting it mildly... very mildly.