recurrences every 2-3 weeks is very unusual and a further work up is in order. A pediatric dermatologist would be helpful if your regular doctor isn't able to figure it out.
grace
My concern was that I saw the relative touch her lip (face) a couple of days after I returned home from a trip. I wondered if she may have done that and then changed a diaper and passed it along. That is why I was womndering if there is any relationship to oral syptoms and genital syspmtoms being triggered at the same time.
Unfortunately, my kids have had some oral syptoms every 2-3 weeks for the last year. it is tough to take but fortunately, they have been very minor so far.
Also, is it possible to have multiple outbreaks in the first year and then a few years later not have them for a long time or at all?
You can have these lip symptoms swabbed rather painlessly for herpes the next time she has them. That would be a lot of ob's for someone her age with oral herpes. Sounds like perhaps there's something else going on - both orally and genitally.
grace
If the relative has genital herpes, there is no way for your daughter to get it genitally from that person unless she was molested by this person.
I'd also wonder if the sores are something other than herpes, and maybe she has yeast or something. She can also easily have that genitally.
Aj