You would not contract herpes from using a lipbalm 10 days later.
I dont have hsv1 for your kind information
Please focus on your nervous condition. You keep coming up with the most implausible questions regarding being infected with a disease. You have a greater chance being killed by a coconut than being infected with herpes, HIV or anything through what you describe.
You most probably already have HSV1 so there is no risk in any event.
Please enjoy your life without a worry about HSV, it isn't worth it. Just keep your eye out for coconuts!