Lots of ?s

About 2 months ago, I had oral and penetration sex with this guy. I was wondering how long, typically, do signs show after if you got herpes from it? And what is a typical sign or first outbreak like? Also, 2 weeks after that, I took a drag of 3 different people's ciggerattes that I didn't know very well and wasn't sure until after if they had herpes- oral or genitial. I was wondering if you could catch either through a ciggeratte and how long to take effect and what the sings or first outbreaks are like??
A day or 2 after the ciggerates I got these big bug like bumps on my upper thighs, some were in pairs, that were thick but not wet or open or sore like. They itched a lot but they never seemed to break skin and they were a little sore after itching but not like super painful or anything. I'm not for sure, but it would seem that about a week after, they waned in size and didn't itch and sooned turned to purple-grayish round scars that aren't raised anymore and grow faint but haven't gone away since. Then, a day ago, I got the same bump in the same place as, maybe even the scar, and it had all the same effects only it only lasted that night and then by morning, it turned into the same scar in no time.... And I'm having strong pulsations that I can actual see pulsate in my lower lip but nothings broke out yet. Also, after the ciggerates, I got a few small acne like things but that itched more around the lower mouth and chin area (I've never gotten acne there). Also I was wondering if herpes could spread to your arms or ankles?

[unsure123456]

also, i have tiny red dots on the outer skin of my vagina, like in around the pubic area, but only a few. they're really small, don't itch often, in fact their itch is like one of those when you just scratch your nose, they don't hurt but they are bumps. could it be an irritation to a certain cloth or underwear or is it a commom sign of herpes?

[auntiejessi]

This isn't sound at all like herpes, but sounds like you do need to see your doctor.

Aj