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Makeout, her saliva masturbation, release.

Hi:

Allow me to describe myself & my situation so I can get the best answers.
Age:18
Gender: Male
Race: Asian (from Indo/Pak, brown skinned). Not to be mistaken as Chinese race (as is often in US).
Senior at high school.
Penis: Circumcised, 5.5" at full arousal.
Exposure occurrence: Eve of Thurs, Dec/21/13

I possibly exposed myself to the worst STD/STI known, genital herpes (?). The worst part is both my parents are doctors and they would be absolutely heart-broken if I really did contract the dreaded disease. Also, I am a straight 3.9-4.0 GPA student and aiming for medical school. But now I don't know how I could be a doctor if I get the infectious disease because of an impulse based mistake.

Anyways, here goes; I had been lusting after this absolutely gorgeous 5'-7/8" tall White girl, who looks like a model & has excellent butt and breasts. She's at my school, since last 2-3 years. One thing to remember here is she is reputed to have sex with around 20-30 people. But she just never gave me the time of the day. However, this year she agreed to go out with me last week. Maybe, because of the guilt as I have been always been helping her with school work.
After the date at the mall we went to my home, she hinted that there'll be nothing sexual and I should not hope for anything.  But somehow we started dry humping and my shirt and hers came off and we started to make out.
That could be called "skin-to-skin rubbing", rather vigorously, no?.
Suddenly she reached under my shorts & started giving me hand job. I was about to reach for Astroglide but instead she spit in her hands and had already started rubbing me. After 3 or 4 mins. I released in her hands. Now I remember that I has groomed myself beforehand and had shaven my groin, got a cut and had wiped it off. Similarly, I had a couple of zits that may have been open on the face as well. I also remember that she has massaged my balls quite lavishly with copies amount of her saliva.
After I finished we just tidied up, chatted and I dropped her off. So no genital fluids exchanged, I am sure.

Now my concerns, pls. know that I have done some research:

1. Today I have slight, continuos irritation on left side of head of penis (corona). No visible signs though.
2. No itching , burning, excessive urination etc.
3. I am most worried about herpes, as I may have open wound on scrotal sack.
4. If it is herpes, for how many weeks should I wait to see/feel initial symptoms? And if after those weeks there're no symptoms, could I call myself scott-free?
5. What else could it be, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV (not likely).

Please help me as I am too young to screw up my life with something as horrible as genital herpes. I am most worried about genital herpes.

Thanks all and sorry for long-winded post.




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There is virtually zero chance of any infection based on what you have described. I'd be confident to say that you did not obtain anything from this woman and certainly not HSV on your genitals.
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Hello;

I have had something similar happen to me two weeks back.
But in my case a paid masseuse just suddenly spit in her hands and masturbated me.

Just like you I have NO idea why instead of lotion she used saliva. I have been crazily looking at Internet and seems like most prostitutes and sex workers use saliva as lubricating. And most experts says it is low risk. But still a risk, is it not??
It seems to be a disgusting habit prevalent amongst female sex workers.

Let's pray both of us are fine and have not contracted anything by our disgusting incidences.
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Hello, can somebody answer my concerns. Please. I am to young for herpes or any STD especially since I didn't ask her to use her saliva on me.

For life of me I still can't understand why she gave me a hand job with her saliva. It's a bad lubricant and dangerous too.

Somebody please address my concerns.
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Guys,

It's been around a little more than 2 weeks since this "hot" girl gave me hand job with her saliva.

But I am still scared as I have seen her with at least 2-3 guys after my incident  and she's known to be quite promiscuous.

Even the tingling I experienced has gone. No symptoms so far, thank God. Could she have given me something ? Am I in the clear, yet?

Pls. help. I am just 18 and do not want to spoil my future and career.
I learnt my lesson.

Please help. I hope her saliva on my penis didn't bring me any disease, especially since  I had cut mu scrotum (painless, non-noticeable) and wiped it off before.

Am I out of troubled water yet?

Thanks all and sorry to bother and sound paranoid.
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This was pretty much a zero risk exposure and you've nothing to worry about least of all genital herpes which by the way isn't nearly as bad as you're making it out to be. It's basically cold sores that you get from time to time on your mouth (HSV-1) but on your privates (HSV-2) yeah not nice but not the end of the world. Relax and move on from this.
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