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Hi, I had sex with a sexworker 2 days ago I confronted her before doing anything and she was mad I've told her you if you had any STD take the money and I'm out! She told me that she care about her self as I cared about mine, but she insisted on doing sex in dim room i told her I wanted to see and she refused and then she told me she was safe, I've then used a condom and covered my self to the base, we begin having sex she refused me touching her so I've used condoms on my fingers to do so, we finished and then I rushed to the bathroom and took the condom off and then cleaned my self with water and I believe shampoo but I'm not sure, then we've settled around 2 hours or so, then I took a long shower and I've used all the shampoo and some liquor to clean my self, after 1.5 days I've noted some red pumps far from each other in hairs, I went to a dormologist doctor and told about what happened and he checked them and told me since you've shaved those are some hair pumps and not hsv 2 I told him I'm not sure of what he said and he got angry and told me that he's a doctor for 26 years and herpes should be small pumps not one pump and the other in inch or so from each other and all in the hair source, I'm not sure and I'm scared shittless I didn't had much sleep and my left eye is itchy and my mouth is dry and I feel like im sick and my temperature is high (feeling) my friend told me maybe because you are afraid you imagine things, you've used condom and cleaned your self what else you want.

Please guys I need your help. Im feel like I'm going to puke from thinking
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15249123 tn?1478652475
Calm down, we are volunteers. This isn't our jobs. Answers can take a little bit.
I agree with your friend and Dr.first off your escort does care about herself more than she cares about you. Her protective behavior is exactly what you want. The dim lights are not a concern honestly. You wore a condom and the new studies suggest condoms are 95% effective for hsv when used correctly. Your bumps aee exactly what your Dr told you they are. A day and a half is to soon for noticeable lesions.
All in all you were at a very tiny risk for contracting any std and that means you can relax. I wouldn't even recommend testing after such a liw risk event.
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Low risk event. Sorry for the typo
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What is the time duration of lesions, I'm entering the fifth day since the encounter and I have a red line in the testicle sack and I'm worried sick I'm not sure if I scratch it when I was looking but i feel burning sensation because I'm using inti bacterial cream, my arms and legs are hurting me and I have itchy armpits and eyes. Could you please clear things to me?!  
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Thank you, yeah I won't have sex anymore with sex workers but now is the fifth day from the encounter and I'm feeling sick from looking for the symptoms I don't sleep or eat, my hip joints hurts and my left shoulder I still don't have any lesions yet, anxiety is going to kill me.
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It won't stop until you relax. Medically your fine. You may need to talk with a professional about your fears.
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I would add, if having sex with sex workers is going to cause you this much anxiety, please do the compassionate thing for yourself and stop having sex with partners that you can't know their std status.
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I don't know the symptoms, and I try not to read them because they are not specific and general. I'm dying
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Obvious lesions and possible flu like symptoms. This includes fever, swollen groin lymph nodes and body aches. Many people end up in the emergancy room. Yes symptoms can be mild. Someone like you wbo is lookung for them it will be obvious. Again, i wouldn't even rwcommend testing after your exposure  
What is the time duration of lesions, I'm entering the fifth day since the encounter and I have a red line in the testicle sack and I'm worried sick I'm not sure if I scratch it when I was looking but i feel burning sensation because I'm using inti bacterial cream, my arms and legs are hurting me and I have itchy armpits and eyes. Could you please clear things to me?!  
15249123 tn?1478652475
You are way over analyzing this. If you get herpes symptoms they will be obvious to you. Stop inspecting yourself.
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I see a small red line at the ball sack, and small pumps on the balls but I'm not sure since I shave my ball sack weekly if it's hair want to grow or hsv im scared
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Hi my eye is itching and i have burning sensation in my groin, could some one tell me if its symptom or not, i feel joint pain and my muscle hurts. I'm afraid ********
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15249123 tn?1478652475
Sore throat is not a symptom of genital hsv.
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God how much I love you. You are the light in darkness for me I just wanted you to know.
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Thank you very much for your reply, I'm afraid she had hsv 2 that's why she didn't want me to see, I woke up today my throat hurts some of the hair pumps has gone but I'm afraid this is the start of the infection. I'm feeling worse by the minute.
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