Need help, very worried.

I am 16 years of age an just under 2 months ago I had unprotected oral sex with my partner. About 1 week after this I noticed a large red spot next to the base of my penis, I became very worried and visited the doctor and I was told that it was an ingrown hair that had become infected. After a week or two this disappeared but I had a lot of itching in my genital and buttocks area, I noticed a few red spots that were only a few millimetres wide in diameter, they were spread all over my body including my chest and thighs being the most affected but I do notice one on the helmet of my penis, this sent off alarm bells again, I went to my doctor explaining how worried I was and I was giving a week antibiotic course and this calmed the spots down a little bit. A few days later I had a stinging sensation when I urinated, again this made me extremely worried! So I went to my doctors and they said it was probably a bladder infection but they took urine samples as they understood my concern. These results come back showing no signs of herpes or other std's and strangely no bladder infection signs. I have some days where I'm not worried atall and some where I'm extremely worried as I have heard herpes is very bad, it has caused me a lot of worry and stress. Today I noticed a few red pimple spots on the helmet of my penis that are slightly painful and I have just finished another course of antibiotics for foleculitis as it didn't completely go away last time. I have also noticed a few red spots on my thighs but they look like some of the spots from foleculitis.
Please can someone help put me at ease? I am extremely worried about his and it's taking over my life, could someone give me there opinion on the matter and inform me on what you think it is? Many thanks I you've taken your time to read&reply

[gracefromHHP]

you've been seen and no one thinks these look like herpes. typically hsv1 genitally would be the herpes risk from unprotected oral sex and your symptoms sound more like irritation or a fungal infection in the genital area than herpes.

continue to be seen when you have symptoms. Have they manually inspected your prostate too at all?

grace