In December I had protected vaginal intercourse and then unprotected oral with a girl from the bar, 3 weeks later. I tested negative for hsv2 at 6 weeks. I waited for the 3 month period and had the full test for stds which included HIV, HSV 1, HSV 2, Chlamydia, Gonarhea, Syphilis and Hepatitis, all came back negative except HSV 1. My research on the internet tells me that just having genital to genital sex with her, the chance that I gave it to her, or she gave it to me is slim, I never performed oral on her, although. Finding I had HSV 1 was a shock, because I never had any symptoms ever. Roughly 4 weeks and 12 weeks after the encounter I had a small abrasion on my penis in different spots which did not hurt, itch, or give me any other problems. This could have been to many things. But what I did, come across was much discharge 2.5 months after the incident and spots of dry skin So my questions come down to this 1) Could she have contracted it after sex with me and was confused about how she contracted it, other posts say most likely, she would have had symptoms 2-10 days after, which doesn't line up with the day she had sex with me, do you have a statistic? 2) Can I consider never having any ulcers or sores on my genitals (besides those abrasions) that I contracted HSV 1 as a youth, never had cold sores but did have canker sores inside the mouth when I was young, So I would be non genital but oral HSV 1 right? 3) At this point can I go back to having sex and not have to worry about the transmission of herpes through genital-genital sex, just so worried about transmitting it, but don't want to tell my girlfriend that the HSV 1 is on my genitals if its not. Im pretty sure she wouldn't care if its only oral? 4) Does the dry skin and discharge sound like any other STD, btw I tested negative for chlamydia and Gonarhea twice months after the incident, negative for trich and syphilis months after the incident too. At a loss of what this could be.