Not sure

About 4 months ago i recieved oral sex from a women that i realy do not think that she had Herpes, but like a month after that i became very weak and having flue like symptoms, but im thinking it all has to be from Anxiety, because at that time i had this ingrone hair looking deal and the next day i watched this TV show on the health channel which talked about STDs'. I started to have all these thoughts about me conntracting one of these. The reason im still babbling on about this 3 months later is because near my groin area my pubic hair was kind of senceitive and wat i mean on that is when i would like move the hair, then on like the base of the pubic hair will have a weird feeling so i shaved it and it got better, but right now i got a single red bump inbutwean my thigh and my groin area, it hardly even hurts when i touch it or it dousnt even iche. So can som1 give me some inlightenment about this?

[DidisMirage]

Still sounds like an ingrown hair :}

[Kingsfan101]

So u honstly think its not Herpes and do u know the symptoms of herpes like from the begeining to the end?

[DidisMirage]

If you have a bump, it will turn into a blister, and break open, seep, and become painful, then scab up and go away as your skin regenerates/heals. It'll also itch like crazy. That's a basic herpes outbreak. Some people only itch. Some people itch and have a lot of nerve pain. it varies within then. Also there's a prodromal period before you get blisters, if you get them, and that's when the itching starts.

And yes honestly, I don't think it's herpes.

[A_Tony]

If you "really want to know where you stand, get an IgG specific blood test for Herpes. That is the gold standard as far as confirmation, aside from getting it swabbed.