Hiya
My partner has had hsv-1 (on lip) since she was a child :- but upto now no outbreaks for 2 years, its a fairly new relationship and with distance we see each other fri, sat, sunday at the moment. I may or may not have HSV1 ive never had sores.
Today she told me she 'may have a coldsore trying to come through'
im guessing this is the prodrome stage?
I know about shedding, and i know theres a small risk even when no coldsores are present and decided to take that risk.
However im a bit confused about risks when she has a coldsore present
I know obviously no oral sex, or kissing
dont share glasses etc (i dont anyway)
but, other practical things i dont know, id be grateful for info on?
Im wary about probing her too much, as my reaction when she told me the first time wasnt great and i dont want to make her paranoid.
How long does prodrome last?. I know she doesnt use meds, if theres no OB or the feeling stops in the next 2 or 3 days is it unlikely to be an outbreak?
Assuming there is an outbreak, and we stay together for the weekend, are there risks from sharing a bed?. Towelling we dont share anyway, but normal things, naked cuddling, (head on chest etc) are they safe?. I dont know if they can spread to chest etc.
Or if theres a real risk of genital herpes from the virus spreading off her hands for instance.
I really dont want to make a deal of it, it isnt a big deal!, i just want to avoid catching it.
Cheers.