Please help me with herpes ?

[Allaric]

Right now i am super scared of Herpes.I found out the girl i met few weeks ago has Genital Herpes for over 12 years. And that she told me after we got intimated.We never had sex no oral sex either.But still i have some concerns.

1: Can herpes virus cross Her panty Liner then Panty then Pjamas,Coz i did rub her there for long time till she had orgasm.or we go really close she was rubbing her self but i was in my boxer shorts and she was in her cloths.Is there any possibility that if she had any shredding of virus (As she mentioned she has last out break in aug last year nothing since then) ,can virus cross all that and get on my finger? or when we rub against each other can transmit.
(She told me her herpes is around her Butt crack area but i didnt go anywhere near)

2: We did kiss for like 10 secs and i did some sucking but she told me she never had a cold sore in life.

So what my chances of catch anything ? I am really worried,

[feelingundone]

If she has hsv1 orally and no cold sores were present than your chances are nearly zero of contracting it.

[Allaric]

i Did kiss her for 10 sec and she had no cold sore,nothing and i asked her she said she has only hsv2,
is there any possibility of hsv1 by kissing

[feelingundone]

If she has genital herpes it can shed anywhere in the boxer shorts area. That being said no it does not transmit through clothing. It needs skin to skin contact and it needs to be massaged in. Herpes is not a big risk for hands at all. It's very rare. You were at no risk at all from this exposure.