*First time I posted this, I posted it in the wrong place... Sorry, I'm new! Lol :p*
So, roughly back in september of 2008, I had a sexual experience with an older gentlemen (girlfriend and I were separated, and I was kinda confused, so I figured I'd try it). All that happened was he gave me oral. Well, everything was fine until a few months later. I started having bleeding from my rectum, then a few weeks later I got the signs of getting Hemroids. Well, I didn't do anything about them til now (I've had them for at least 5 + months) because I don't have any health insurance because I lost my job. I just started using Preparation H today, but if it doesn't get at least mildly better in about a week, I'm going to the doctor.
I read how hemroids can often be misdiagnosed, and it can actually be a sign of herpes. I think I have something (mostly herpes from what I read) because I seem to be showing a lot of signs, however I'm also torn because a lot of these signs have been happening for most of my life. For instance, my skin is itchy all over (mostly my chest/arms), but it's winter time so of course my skin is going to be really dry. And I'm also getting like these really small, red bump looking things on various places of my body. Like my hands, arms, ectera. Usually it's only one that comes, then it goes away in a few days, then I find another one. They don't hurt, itch, or puss or anything like that, they're just kinda there.
Also, about a day ago, I noticed this little red (cold sore?) bump looking thing above my lip. Again though, no pain, no puss, nothing like that at all. Again, it's just kind of there. I put carmax on it to see if it'd heal it, or help it go away. I have not found any bumps or sores or anything of that nature around my genital area, however there's some slight pain in the area where my pubes grow, no bumps or anything, just some slight pain when I poke it hard. I suppose I should add that I am under a great deal of stress. Constantly getting complained to about getting a job, worrying about having a STD, very mad at myself for not being able to find one, ectera.
Other than that I'm fine. I just really would like some help because my current girlfriend and I started having sex a few months ago (about 2 or 3 I want to say), but she isn't showing symptoms of any kind. We always use a condom (except for one or two times). I just want to make sure she's in no danger, and I'm fine, and considering I can't really afford to go the doctor yet, I'm reaching out to you wonderful people. Help me please.
P.S. Sorry it's so long.