Auntijessi please quote me where I told roefa he has herpes....
I am simply someone living with the same undiagnosed problems I seem to come across on herpes forums again and again and sadly for me all my problems started after I tried to have sex once with someone who told me they have HSV2. I never tell anyone what they do not or do have. I am giving them my story and what I’ve been through trying to solve this nightmare.
The Western Blot is not worth it for me. As accurate as they say it is, it still only looks for antibodies. It doesn’t detect the virus.
My goal is to find the root of these symptoms I’ve been experiencing for a over a year now. Every test I’ve taken is negative, but the symptoms remain. And just to be clear, all other available STD tests can detect the actual virus from the specimen taken. The HSV blood test is the only one that cannot. That is the main reason behind my distrust of the test, not to mention it’s a known fact that herpes is a virus that has become very adept at hiding from the immune system.
Again, please remember all of my issues began directly following exposure to HSV. I have every logical reason to believe the blood tests are wrong, when my body is telling me I am infected with something that has affected my genitals for this long and that repeats itself in constant cycles, and all symptoms CAN be aligned with herpes.
You wouldn't see symptoms so soon - it takes at least 2 days before you get any symptoms of anything.
Your risk was really pretty low.
Yes, you have a risk for getting genital herpes type 1 from the oral sex, as well as gonorrhea (not at all common), and NGU. NGU is an infection in the urethra that can be caused by normal mouth bacteria. If she didn't have any sores, your chances of getting NGU are probably the highest.
Having protected sex can still result in syphilis (not at all common), genital herpes type 2 and HPV. These infections are transmitted by genital skin-to-skin contact, and the condom doesn't protect all your skin.
However, getting anything from a protected encounter are pretty slim. None of this is anything I'd overly worry about.