hair and after that i noticed that i got them i popped one which i know is bad and it had a little clear liquid come out...not so much puss like but after a few days i noticed more and they itch a bit and now are puffy and red like irritated...i dont have this anywhere on the penis
No you can't get genital herpes from performing oral sex on someone. It's transmitted by skin-to-skin contact, it doesn't travel through your body.
Shaving easily can cause irritation such as you describe. If you've never been tested for herpes though, now's as good a time as ever to find out your herpes status. A swab/culture of symptoms and an IgG type specific blood test is what you'd want.