Risk of HPV and HSV 2

2 days back i had a protected vaginal sex with a CSW. Please assess my risk level..

1. I was not protected and i was hugging her from behind for 15 seconds or so. Then i washed my penis in and around and thigh with some kind of lotion with cold water.
2. She was licking my shaft for 5-7 seconds but i told her to put the condom, i do not see any sores on her lips. Then she gave me a protected oral sex.
3. She came on top of me for protected vaginal sex for around a minute and i am done by that time. Removed 2 condoms from my penis which was intact. I dont think she has any secretion that could reach to the base of my penis during that time.

Within a minute or 2, i washed my penis in and around, thighs with that lotion 2 times. After coming home, in 45 minutes time i had a hot shower again.

Yesterday i had a doubt like i spotted something on her buttocks so i went to see what it is. I spot 2 things..
1. On her buttocks, an inch away from her anus, (i do not know how to explain, will try my best as how exactly it looked) there was something looked like a swollen/bump skin of 1 cm size in diameter, flesh colored skin. I took a closer look, It is definitely not a blister,rash, ulcer, lesion or genital wart (cos it didnt look like cauliflower shape). It doesnt look like it has any kind of secretion or filled with fluid. I cant relate that bump with anything i have seen in google images. When i asked her she said it is there since her childhood, i do not know whether i came in contact to that area during vaginal sex but i think the chances are thin because of the location of the bump because she was on top of me.
2. A small 2-3 mm shiny skin area in the thigh 3 inches away from her vagina. She told its because of the friction of her underwear during period time.

My concern is:
1. What are the chances these skin conditions are related to hsv or hpv or anyother sti?
2. Even if it is an STI, what are the chances of contracting STI because first i hugged her from behind and definitely my penis would have touched that bump but i washed within 2 minutes and second time i was protected and i  washed my public area and thigh within minutes.
3. Should i live in fear for next 3 months to see any symptoms of hsv 2 or hpv?

Your reply means a lot to me. PLEASE REPLY.

[whydididothat]

She showed her vagina and i couldnt see anything wrong inside or in and around vagina. Its all clean there. I didnt see her anus. What a non-sense? I cant forgive myself for doing all this.

[petal130]

You had protected sex, which is for the most part safe sex even with herpes, and this was a one-time encounter. In the absence of obvious symptoms, no reason to even test for herpes, but you can 3-months post encounter if it worries you.

For future reference, washing over and over does nothing but make you smell purty. The fact that you saw nothing also doesn't mean much. Herpes can be transmitted via viral shedding, when the other person is contagious but has no symptoms.

As to HPV, you'd need to post on that forum.

[whydididothat]

Thanks for your reply Petal130..

how long should i wait for symptoms to shwo up, if at all it is symptomatic..

hsv 2 .. is it 2-7 days or 2-14 days..
hpv.. i think its 1-3 months or more

:(

[petal130]

2-20 days for both HSV1 and HSV2.

Most initial infections DO involve symptoms. It's more so that most people don't have recognizable symptoms or just pass it off as something else and don't think to test.

[whydididothat]

thanks a lot for your prompt response..

how about hpv..

What do you think about the bump i mentioned in my first post.. it aint looked like a blister, lesion, ulcer or a wart.. what else it could be..

do you think its related to STI by any chance..

thanks for your support..

[petal130]

You'd have to post on the STD or HPV forum.

[whydididothat]

thanks again.

Petal, please tell me whatever i described about the marks on her buttocks related to herpes by any chance?

[Mistakeguy789]

Marks could be from anything.  It's best to show a doctor if you have symptoms if they feel it is something to investigate they can perform a culture.  Herpes typically doesn't just show up as red marks.