Scared that I may have contracted herpes...please help

I has protected sex with my ex on Dec. 27.

I keep on my.boxer briefs and wore a condom.

I put it inside her about 5 tines but.stopped bcuz I was scared.

I have no bumps or blisters but my back does hurt but I think it is from running in the gym. (i mainly feel pain after gym)

I have no spots or redness, no pain when peeing etc...

I do have very small inchless painless skin colored bumps under my shaft but they may have already been there. They resemble hair follicle bumps but no hair growing out. I feel like I only discovered them bc I was stressing searching for other bumps.

I still want to have sex with my ex in the future but not sure what to do.

Thanks.

[halo884]

Oh and she hasnt had an outbreak in a while and hasnt had sex since summer.

I want to be with her long term but.dont want to get hsv2 either

[gracefromHHP]

so your female partner has hsv2 and you've been tested to know that you don't?

if you two did nothing but avoid sex anytime she had anything going on genitally, you'd be 96% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from her. If she takes daily suppressive therapy and you also use condoms in addition to that, you'd be 99% likely each year NOT to contract hsv2 from her.

grace

[halo884]

Thanks :)

And I dont believe I have it.

I was tested last year and good.

What if I am feeling something in my area near my.hips?

While on treadmill it hurt a bit and I also feel it now but slightly....i think my mind is playing tricks on me...

[halo884]

Ugh...now I found a pimple on my buttcheek and im thinking I have it.

Ive always had random pimples there but of course now I would really focus on them.

Im gonna worry myself to death smh

[gracefromHHP]

you are overly focused on your genital area from the sounds of things. not worth these sort of paranoia with such a brief and protected encounter.

[halo884]

Thanks!

If anything changes I will post.

But, stressing has caused me to actually understand and see.that its not as bad as I was once thought. Its kind of messed up people with this disease.care the butt of jokes :(