I am a 37 year old male. 8 weeks ago I visited a nude strip club. It was dark and I did not see the dancer's face too well to notice any sores or lessions. She gave me several lap dances with lots of grinding my groin while I wore khaki pants and boxers, no exposed penis to her body. I did finger her vagina for a few seconds with one finger which she would lick off my finger afterwards . A few minutes later, she then offered a handjob that I agreed to. She removed my penis from my pants through the fly, i do not belive my testicles were exposed. She began a quick handjob lasting 3-5 minutes, there was no condom involved. She did lean down and lick the head of my penis once or twice and even sucked the head of my penis for a few seconds, i guess to provide lubrication. I warned her I was about to ejaculate and she then stood up and danced a few feet from me while I masterbated myself to ejaculating into a napkin. I quickly left the club in a panik, freaking out at what I just had allowed to happen. Within 10 minutes of leaving the club (15 minutes or so after the handjob), i washed my genitals with lots or soap and water. I got tested at 6 weeks after the exposure (testing was done 2 weeks ago from today) for nearly every std including hiv, herpes 1 and 2, hepatitis a/b/c, ghonorhea, clamydia, and syphilus. All of which can me back negative. I think I am alright on most fronts, but herpes has me freaked out. I have not had any symptoms that I can confirm in/around my genetals and I never had contact with my mouth and her body though I cannot remember if her breast may have brushed my lips. I have numerous "phantom" symptoms, i imagine due to anxiety. Can the rubbing/grinding while clothed compound any potential exposure? Can the few seconds of licking or sucking of my penis head expose me to herpes, such as hsv1? I have heard herpes needs to be "massaged" in so would the handjob be sufficient to massage it in? I am so concerned and incredibly anxious ....