Hi, I have been dating my GF for about 2 months. She has HSV 2 for 16 years and says she hasnt had an outbreak this year. We have not had intercourse yet because I am afraid to have sex with her out of fear of contracting the disease. She is not on suppressive therapy, she says she doesnt like taking the meds. I have heard that it is more difficult for a man to contract the virus from an infected female, is this correct? I have tried to find transmittal rates, but the only ones I have found are when suppressive therapy is involved. Can anyone shed any light on this for me? I am close to having sex with her, but still feel a little uneasy. Whenever we do, I will use condoms, but I understand that this is only 30-40% effective. Any advice anyone can give is greatly appreciated. Thanks!