First off, i'd like to thank Dr. Handsfield and Dr. Hook for providing me with much appreciated information and reassurance during these past anxiety riddled months. I am a 29 year old male with no history of STDs. About 4 and a half months ago, i had vaginal intercourse with a young woman who afterwards informed me that she had genital herpes (visually diagnosed by a campus doctor, no blood test). i wore a condom, but there was some brief genital on genital contact. there were no visible sores that i noticed and she claims to this day that she has had no outbreaks since her initial outbreak which was 4 months before our encounter. i immediately began researching herpes and lost hope pretty quick after reading the standard cdc info and proceeded to freak out for several weeks. finally, i came across this forum and after reading about encounters similar to my own, i began to calm down, especially since i did not experience any herpes symptoms whatsoever (i have been examining myself with great scrutiny every day). finally, my anxiety got the better of me and i decided to have an igg blood test at 9 and a half weeks instead of the full 12. i tested negative for both type 1 and type 2 which was somewhat relieving but i was still a bit paranoid because of how early i got tested. i eventually calmed down about it and around the same time i started hanging out with the previously mentioned woman and our relationship became romantic. we did not have intercourse, but one night she gave me oral sex and i fingered her. this was about 3 weeks ago. i didn't think much of it at the time (drunk once again), but lately i have been getting anxiety again. still no herpes symptoms whatsoever. so now, my question is, should i get tested again? and if so, should i wait 12 weeks after the oral encounter or get tested now since it's been about 4 and a half months since the initial encounter?