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do i have herpes?

Hello all,

This past sunday, i was chilling with this girl, and one thing led to another, i was fingering her. There was no kissing, no oral, vaginal, anal, nothing at all besides fingering. After i left, i washed my hands like 2-3 times. I didnt touch my face or anything as i was fully clothed. On monday i felt something on my lip. Not a pimple, but like a something, i cant explain. I asked my co worker and he said it has a small cut, like i bit it or something. Im not showing any symptoms, but i know sometimes herpes wont. I been worrying about it and i been feeling weird! I been stressing about it and everything i read online, i thought i felt. Not sure its in my head or if its really happening. No cuts on my hands or anything. I found out he has herpes. Not sure what kind as i heard from my bro, which he heard from the girls dad. Like i said, there was absolutely no touching of anything else besides hamd to vagina. I touched nothing besides the faucet to wash my hands, and i didnt touch my face with my hand until like 7-8 hours later. Heres the questions..

How soon will anything show, if anything shows?
What are the chances of me catching herpes?
How soon can i get tested?

Thank you all!
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Let's say a guy fingers a girl, washes his hands, then masturbates hours later and a day later.  If the girl has asymptomatic HSV2, can he contract it?
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Oh ok i understand. Idk guys, i think about it all the time. Goibg to tell my doctore tomorrow. Will report back
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That's not what life said, he inferred that you did not acquire herpes from the episode you describe. That doesn't mean you do not have a long term oral HSV1 infection like the majority of the population.

You are worrying yourself sick over very little I would suggest. Try to relax.
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Its been a week and some days now. No bumps on penis, or face. I worked myself up over this quite a good bit. Cause myself headaches that last for seconds?

Give me your take on it. Fleetwood said zero chance, you say possible. Reasons?
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Hi, you may have herpes but not from the act you describe in your post.
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Hello. Anyone
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So now, my throat feels a bot sore, like when i swallow, its a bit tough.. so it looks like i have herpes :((((
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Can the virus traveling inside cause very slight headaches that last for seconds? Or is that stress from worrying? I read headaches can cause outbreaks and be a symptom. Care to shed any light on this?
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Ok. Do you have an email in which i can contact you? Id like yo lesrn more, and the web has conflicting info.
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Also zero, the virus must be firmly rubbed into the sensitive skin for even the slightest chance of infection. It isn't bio waste.
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Ok, well since thats dealt with, what are the chances of oral herpes?
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There's no may be in the clear about it, if your penis didn't touch anything the you do not have genital herpes from this episode. Period.
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Ok. Because i been feeling like ive been feeling it crawl up my spine and in my head. But not headaches, jus like some type of deep feeling, like i feel the virus making its way up.. seems i only feel this when my mind wanders, and im looking for a reply from you..i will report any other feelings. Thank you fleet. You must think im super paranoid or something. No tingles, or burns or anything yet, its been 6 days. Another week or so, and i may be in the clear.
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It is extremely rare for HSV1/2 to pass into your spine. It occurs less than 1/500000 people years. You are far more likely to feel it in your head as headaches if this happens. If this does happen then 90% of the time it is caused by HSV1 and only 10% HSV2.

This is academic, there is zero chance you have herpes.
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Please, anyond respond..
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Thank you for the info. So i know the virus goes up your spine. . Would you feel that?
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Zero chance. It is like most viruses, very frail in the elements. It is not biohazard material. Unlikely it lived more than a few seconds on your hand. Washing with soap and water kills and removes most viruses.
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No way of getting genital herpes from only fingering? For some reason, i felt a sensation on my genitals that lasted seconds. Used a flashlight to inspect penis, and testicles. Found nothing, or the spot i felt the sensation. Not tingling, or irritation. Just some feeling that mafe me check. No itching, no bumps, or anything. What do you think? What are the chances of getting it on my hand, then on my penis AFTER washing my hands multiple times before touching penis?
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12 weeks is required to have  confidence in a negative results in case it takes the body that long to produce antibodies.

No home testing kits I'm aware of. Just have blood drawn at the appropriate time for the lab to do the test.
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12 weeks? Quite a while! Any kind of home test?
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Yes a test will calm you down if you need to believe you are negative. This test will need to be 12 weeks from the exposure.
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Very true! So should i wait couple weeks and tested tested?

I appreciate your input fleetwood, but i would like to pick your brain. Im a bit intoxicated and i have not thought about it, and i feel just fine. And i had people who had both types of herpes and they told me i dont have the symptoms lol. But still just want the reinsurance. Everyone is different, i may not show symptoms or anything. But i kind of feel like a test will calm me down. I been stressing a bit honestly.
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Without a blood test, you cannot confirm that you don't have oral herpes.

The symptoms you refer to could be any number of things, but they don't sound at all like herpes.

You will not have contracted HSV2 of the finger, even if you have, then this will not impact your sex life as it is not known to be at all infectious in the absence of sores.
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Well my bro is in his 30s and his friend is also in his 30s and they have been friends for atleast 10 years. I dont doubt this, but i did not learn if it was oral or genital, i do not want this at all. I do not have oral herpes. I know this already. So all the things i felt have been in my mind? I feel like its been actual pain, and not mind, but then again, i have been stressing a good bit. So whats to say i am that millionith person? People say virtually, or next to impossible, but theres a chance...most likely i will pay the cash to get tested. My sex life is worth more than the bill of the test lol.
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