does my boyfriend have herpes?!

Ok, today my bf asked me to have sex. So I playfully grabbed his penis and pulled him closer while I was looking at it it had irratation marks on the shaft so I asked him about it and he told me he humps the sheets in his sleep? We have lived together for 8 months n I've never felt him do this and it just apaired but its seemed to spread. Or get bigger.its now in three places one big one In the middle one little one under the head and one little closer to he bottom. I looked pics up on Google of herpes and it kinda looks like two of the pictures. But its red and looks like irritation. I'm so scared because he has a history of cheating and I'm 24 weeks pregnant. Can anyone help me out? :(

[gracefromHHP]

he needs to be seen and get this looked at. also odds are that he's never been tested for herpes before so his getting a type specific herpes igg blood test is also a good idea.

do you know if you were tested for herpes yet? it's not always a part of routine pregnancy testing so if you aren't sure, call the clinic monday and ask.

at this point, avoid sex with him until you have better answers.

grace

[kelsebby92]

I was and my mother took the test for me at the hospital cause she works there and said no. But we've had unprotected sex literally the hole time and this is the second time I've seen this on him other time was two weeks ago. He won't go get tested let alone talk to me about it because that's how he is of he cheated he won't tell me no matter what. And I tried comforting him to talk to him about it but he won't. I called his mom and asked her bout that and she said no noone has it and last time she checked he didnt but he won't go to the doc. And I can't make an app til Monday which I'm doing first thing... And I'm deffinately avoiding sex with him until then because I don't want my child to be hurt, get herpes, nor do I wa.t a c section. Also I've been alittle itchy Down there lately, and so has he. Is that a symptom?

[gracefromHHP]

you are pregnant. he needs to man up and deal with this and get the igg blood testing for herpes done for the health of his child!!!  Also make sure he's getting a full std screening done too.

[kelsebby92]

Yes that's what my mother said. And I completely agree. But he's pretty immature. I'm not touching him until I get tested and same with him.