i got a question my ex girlfriend had herpes and didnt tell me untill the middle of are relationship and i understand its hard to tell someone you have herpes. i never asked her because i thaught she would have told me and i know i was stupid. well she said she had only had 1 break out and it was years ago. a few weeks into our relationship i noticed a red spot
. it was a little sore for a couple hours after i noticed it but the pain then went away and it was gone 2 days after i noticed it.and it hasnt came back but its a little darker where it was now. that was the only sign i had. i havent been tested yet. what are my chances of having herpes?