what you need to do is go get lesion cultures, given that the sores are still fresh, and igg blood tests for both of you. their could be so many possibilties. do you have a history of cold sores? if so you might have transmitted it through oral sex
. it could also be a yeast infection or folliculitis. you need to go get this checked ASAP. could also be something that has to do with nothing. there is no real point in worrying. the worst it is is herpes, and a simpler explanation is a yeat infection or bacterial infection.
good luck with this and all the best.
paralized from stroke years ago.Just no symptoms,and like I said.no sex partners for over 20yrs,just showed up overnight,strange don't ya think.20yrs later,thanks much for your help..
She needs to go and be seen and get proper testing done as was already suggested. This could be a prior herpes infection that is just now showing an obvious recurrence, a bacterial infection , fungal infection or many other things and she'll need proper diagnosis to find out what is going on. Indeed yes you can have herpes for half a lifetime and not realize it - it's far more common than most folks realize it is.