for my partner to transmit oral HSV1 to me genitally. He was asymptomatic that whole time too, only having had cold sores throughout his teenage years.
Do you know your own herpes status??? You could be worrying for nothing (well, you already are). 70% of the adult population has oral herpes. 1 in 4 women and 1 in 5 men have genital herpes; of those 90% don't even know it.