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HSV-1 orally sheds 18% of days, not 1.7%. GO to www.westoverheights.com for more info. I dont think telling your wife about cold sore should be stressful, most people have it!
At this point your wife can get a type specific herpes igg blood test to see what her own status is. if she's negative, you already know that being together this long and taking no precautions while not perfect, has been working for you.
no need to test the kids and depending on their ages, might not be an accurate blood test available anyways. just avoid kissing them when you are sick and/or have obvious cold sores present and while not perfect, is pretty darn good. If they are infants, don't put their pacifier in your mouth or share food/drinks with them or prechew their food.
www.ashastd.org has terrific info on hsv1 orally under their herpes section for more reading.
no need to test the kids and depending on their ages, might not be an accurate blood test available anyways. just avoid kissing them when you are sick and/or have obvious cold sores present and while not perfect, is pretty darn good. If they are infants, don't put their pacifier in your mouth or share food/drinks with them or prechew their food.
www.ashastd.org has terrific info on hsv1 orally under their herpes section for more reading.
grace