*i dont get the right answer*

hello
i need help please, i have post many questions here but i dont know what else to do to answer my questions,  i tested for herpes with an herpeselect test it came out negative to the virus i was exposed by a guy 5 or 6 years ago.
i have all the symptoms in my mouth and tounge i feel a very hard burning sensation in my lips and in my mouth, it gets red by times, i havent had any visible like the photos i see in internet (cold sores)
i dont really know what to do, im very afraid to get those in my mouth, my little 8 year old girl seems to have it now too, i havent made any blood test but she has my same symptoms.
what can i do?
what medication should i take?
im tired of going to my doctor and he tells me i dont have nothing cause it came neg (the test)
this is getting me crazy already !!!

[waringblender]

Next time you have the sores, get them cultured. Sounds like it's not herpes, though. The symptoms you've described don't sound anything like herpes. Sorry.

[lindsay190]

i havent got any visible sores only the redness by moments in my lips and the burning sensation too.  its very bad in my tounge too the redness and

could the negative test be false and have the virus?
it came out hsv1 0.23

[gracefromHHP]

Oral herpes isn't likely to cause all the symptoms you've listed. Continue to follow up with your provider to find out what is going on.

Have you started any new medications lately?  Have you recently been on antibiotics for anything?

grace