if any one knows anything about it?

[val333]

ok after me and my boyfriend have sex, my vigina area on the outside looks red is that normal?

[gracefromHHP]

When critizing people's typing/spelling skills - it's best to make sure your own post is grammatically correct  :P

grace

[aboutme20]

ummm before u have sex please name how to spell Vagina!

[val333]

ok, no i have not tried the astroglide because my sister told me after she had used it she had gotten a rash down there from it and it had made me nervous to try it but thank you. i geuss i will search around o n the web and look for some lubes ok well thank you agian

[gracefromHHP]

don't use the warming ones if you have sensitive skin!!!

Have you tried astroglide?  There are also plenty out there on the web to order that you won't find on the shelves in drugstores.  I like the silicone ones myself but not everyone does.  

[val333]

Thank you i will give that a try but do you think that you could recommend me some types of lube because im very sensitive and the ones that i have tries like the K y jelly the wamers make me burn and the durex ones burn as well any suggestions? its hard for me to find any beaucse i am so sensitive.

[gracefromHHP]

Get yourself a good lube and try that each time you have sex and see if that helps.  Redness for a half hour after sex is just due to the friction of sex.  As a friend of mine who's a std counselor tells her clients - take a flip flop and rub it over your arm in the same area non-stop for 10 minutes and see what happens. That's what is going on in your genital area when you have sex! be kind to your nether regions and grease them up :)

grace

[val333]

There are no bumps and it does not itch, it does not last long maybe no more than an 30mins sometimes i dont pay attention of how long it lasts. yes it has happend everytime we have intercourse.it doesn't really hurt sometimes i do have a pain its like a stinging kind of burning feeling. No we do not use condoms, we have used a lube called durex play stuff but we had only used it like two or three times.

[gracefromHHP]

If it's only happening when you have sex - it's not likely to be std related.  Do you use lube? Do you use condoms? Does it stay red for long or just for a hour or so after sex?



grace

[Leigh24]

I would be more specific for people to be able to help you, are there any bumps or lesions, does it itch, how long has it been like that, does it happen every time, etc?  Don't stress right now until you have more specifics and you'll be okay :)