"I have recently noticed due to stress and anxiety"
That's your entire problem right there! Stop stressing and stop the anxiety at once, seriously. All these "problems" you are experiencing isn't from the escort its from the anxiety! Please try and relax, if you are having a hard time doing so take a brisk 30 minute walk when you can, or when anxiety is high. Get back to eating, drinking and sleeping like you were before this and before you know all these issues will be gone!
I've been in your shoes before! Take care.
Hi, what your describing does not appear as a herpes outbreak and contracting it from your affair with kissing, where she did not have any lip sores at the time, the risk would be close to zero. But to confirm your herpes status if your sexually active have a blood test for the protection of others.