About 6 or 7 months ago I was with my ex boyfriend who was manipulative, controlling, and a pathalogical liar. One time i got a pink raw mark on the tip of my clitoris that was very sore and hurt when I urinated, but it was not itchy. My doctor said could possibly be herpes my blood test came back undetermined. I then went to another doctor who said it did not look like herpes but just irritation, she swabbed the mark and it came back negative, however she said the results from swabs are not completely accurate. I was perscribed pills to treat for herpes by the first doctor, but the mark just seemed to go away on its own. After that my ex claimed he had been diagnosed with herpes and said he had a sore but when I saw him a few days later and it was gone. Since then I have not had another mark or felt any of the symptoms recurr, so I felt that I was fine. I now have a new boyfriend and we have been sexually active for about 3 months. Before we got together I got tested because I had a bladder infection, and the results came back fine, but the clinic could not test for herpes because they only could if sores were present. But just a week ago my boyfriend noticed a red mark on his lower stomach between his penis and bellybutton. Today I noticed something that looked the same on his butt cheek. I did not get a good look at it but they look like large singular red circles with a kind of ring around the outside. I do not know if it is hurting or bothering him but he has not complained about them much or showed concern. And there is nothing on his penis. It looks nothing like the mark I had before and I do not have any symptoms currently. What could this be? I am not sure if I should bring it to his attention and cause him to worry too.