spmeone help

what are the symptoms of urethral herpes,  i got tested and the test said that i have been exposed to herpes and they cant tell which one cause its to early. a girl gave me oral sex and two days later i had pain and burning in my urethra,  no blisters, no discharge, no sores, just pain and burning.  so i have herpes then .  im going nuts, cant believe this i didnt even have sex with her. even used a condom,  this sucks, my life is over, i guess im the less than 1%, how unlucky, can someone help