transmission risk with outbreak but no sex

Hi. I may have HSV2 as I was intimate with someone several times, that I now know has it. Had a culture and it came back negative but the sore was almost gone.  I am now awaiting blood test. During this time, I have not had sex with my BF for fear of transmission if I do in fact, have it. So here is my question....For the past 3 days, I have slept with BF every night. We have cuddled naked. His penis has touched my buttocks and stomach while we held each other. we did not have naked genital grinding nor any direct of his penis with my anus or vagina... but his genitals did touch my thigh, lower stomach, etc. when he held me. He did masturbate me with his hand several times. the last time we were together was last night and when I woke up, I had a feeling of hemmoroids (hemorrhoids). I do have them, but upon inspection, think there may also be a lesion ...Assuming it is Genital HSV, and there is an active lesion inside my anus, what were the risks to him from the activities listed above? Im especially worried about his penis touching my buttocks skin and upper pubic area/lower stomach since that is in the boxer short region.

[gracefromHHP]

this was not a risk for your partner.

we already discussed in your prior post that your contact with the other partner was not a risk for herpes either.

why not just get a type specific herpes igg blood test done to see what your status is?

grace