Approximately 4 weeks ago, i went to my gyn for my annual visit. I expressed to her that i had heavy periods, some pelvic pain & unusual white discharge. I had a pap & urinalysis, both which were negative. She also ordered a pelvic ultrasound, which showed some small cysts in the uterus & ovaries. She also put me on the Loestrin FE bcp's to control my bleeding & cramps. I started taking the pills on march 14. Since then, I started a relationship & we had unprotected sex. Neither one of us has ever had any std's. The last time we were together was march 26. The weekend passed & on Sunday I noticed a lesion on the inside of my vagina, which burned when i urinated. I looked carefully & found no others, inside or out. On Monday morning, my partner told me that his penis head was red, raw & very swollen and there was a small blister. He told me that he had experienced some pain during the first time we had sex, just a week earlier, but didn't say anything and that actually it was even a bit more painful the second time, but again chose to say nothing. Well, it's been a week & his symptoms are still the same, except there are more blisters. He's embarrased to see a dr. Me, I continued having pelvic & flank pain since last week. Ended up in the ER on Saturday. After urinalysis, bloodwork & CT scan, I was diagnosed with a UTI & renal stone, and was told to follow-up with urologist. I stopped taking the pill and of course threw my cycle off & got my period yesterday. This morning, I noticed more blisters along the inside folds of the labia, kind of like in a row. Some of the blisters appear to have become sores. They truly burn when I urinate. My gyn is on vac & I can't get in to see her until april 14th. I do have an appt w/ a urologist this afternoon. Any idea what is wrong w/ me? With him?