Hi, I've had genital warts for at least 8 years. I've had to have them frozen off three times in that period. Some people get lucky and they never come back, and sometimes they come back right away or in my case about every 3 years a few pop back up.
1. Most (90% of the people who are infected) never get more warts. No one knows who will be in this 90%. Some think a weakened immune system can cause more warts. Tobacco use has been proven to cause more warts. So has un-safe sex during the recovery period. Try living a healthier life: eat healthy foods, no cigs, lots of rest, exercise, meditation, vitamins, reduced stress, etc. That may result in no more warts as it gives your body a chance to fight the virus.
2. There is no cure. One can become "cleared" which means the virus is at such low levels, that you are not infectious. The virus remains in the body forever.
3. No sex (safe or unsafe) for at least 3-6 months after the warts are all gone. Un-safe sex is always going to be risky but if there are no warts, then there is less of chance you are infectious. You have to understand that HPV is the common cold of STDs. 8 out of 10 sexually active adults have it from oral sex and genital sex. Neither is safe. There is no such thing as safe sex. This was a myth.
4. Some people think a re-occurrence has to do with a weakened immune system. The medical community does not agree with this theory but some of us do.
5. No one knows if they have tiny warts under the skin. It is assumed that most people have them all over the genital skin (thighs, buttocks, scrotum, penis, vagina, etc).
6. As written above, lead a super healthy life. No stress. More rest. Vitamiins and supplements. Exercise. No booze or reduced booze. Avoid colds. No cigs. No 420. Healthy foods that are good for diets.
7. The warts are the low risk for cancer strains. Which means that your partners will not get cancer from this however women can get tested every year and pre-cancerous cells can be removed.
Your sex life is not the most important thing right now. Your recovery (no warts) comes first. Then things should return to normal. Should you tell a future partner about your genital warts is up to you. Most do not tell because it is assumed that most people have it. The CDC says if you have had 4 ore more partners in your life, you have been exposed to it. Most people have had more than 4 partners.
The best thing of all is to find someone who has the same strains or also has had warts. This isn't going to kill you or your partners. Good luck and realize that most of us were just like you and now we've moved past the shock and are leading happy lives.
You are asking a lot of good questions. I will reply to every one of them tonite. Just understand that the term "cured" doesn't make sense with HPV. I will explain later.
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