Hi,
I'm an guilt-and-anxiety-ridden guy who had an incident out of his relationship. I've largely ruled out STDs at this point (after two months) but HPV is one of those hard ones to rule out.
My "exposures" to the woman were fingering her vagina and allowing her to rub her vagina on my thigh.
I know I don't know that she had a wart or HPV or was actively shedding, so I can hope that's all not true.
But other than that, can someone give me a realistic risk assessment of these activities?
I feel like I've always read the doctors saying HPV doesn't like to live on the hand. Is that right?
They also seem to think that genital-hand-genital contact is unlikely (me fingering here than touching my own penis). Also correct? What are the odds here/
Next, I feel like I've read that it's possible to get HPV from her rubbing her vagina on my bare thigh/leg, but again, that's unlikely because the skin is thicker there. Again true?
And finally, am I correct that the risk of transmission comes from the time/place of skin-to-skin contact and not from something more indirect, like her rubbing her vagina on my leg and then my penis later touching that area and/or her vagina juices slowing down my thigh toward/to my penis/scrotum?
Thanks for your info, much appreciated.