Hello!
A few weeks ago, I was in a friend's dorm, and we ended up "fooling around." We made out, and it got to a point where we were both shirtless, and she reached into my pants and gave me a handjob. I had a small ejaculation before, so there may have been semen on my penis when she gave the handjob (which may have dried or not). Later, there was dry humping and me rubbing her vaginal area with her pants still on (khaki short shorts, didn't rub inside of her pants, but outside of them).
Now, I was diagnosed with HSV-2 via a blood test the same year, and I have never had an outbreak. Knowing that my type of herpes can only be spread sexually, I decided to tell her after the scenario. She became really distraught (understandably), and she's going to be tested in two months. We're afraid that even though I don't have open sores, I could have been shedding asymptomatically, and she could have touched her face or mouth some time afterward, thus giving her the virus. Further still, the dry humping/rubbing may have transmitted it. My question is: do we really have anything to worry about at this point?
P.S. She didn't touch her own genitals