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I caught Genital Warts off of my girlfriend, now she doesn't seem to care.

I caught Genital Warts off of my girlfriend, now she doesn't seem to care.

Me and my girlfriend had been going out for a year and a half before we split for 3 months, within those 3 months she had sex with 4 other people. I came back to her and we've been going strong for 4 months now. She started getting emotional and then told me she thought she had genital warts and then what do you know in a week I got a small lump I was in denial at first but knowing she had it I should have gone to the doctors straight away then I got another 2 so i decided it was time to get checked out we both went to our doctors and mine checked them straight away and froze them off (apparently) they still haven't gone away and there's now even more I'm going back to see him again tomorrow, but that's not my problem. This is really affecting me, I'm afraid that if I loose her nobody else will ever want me again I've decided I'm not having sex again until I know it's gone completely, it's really messing with my self esteem I spend hours searching for remedies and trying them all but I haven't found anything!

Her's have seemed to dissapear, all of them and she hasn't had them come back so she's feeling better about herself but now when I try and talk to her about me and how it's affecting me she gets angry and doesn't want to hear about it, she doesn't want to talk to me at all, this really hurts me! I can't face it alone and she doesn't want to accept the fact I got them off her and help me get through it!

I sat down and talked with her through it, told her I didn't care what std's she had even if it was aids I'd stay with her and be there with her I even told her I'd organise her first appointment with her doctor and take her so nobody else would find out, but it's a whole different story with me!

Please somebody help me, or tell me what I can do I don't want to keep on going like this it's really going to damage me.
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I'm going to be straight up with you dude... LEAVE THAT HEFFER ALONE! PLEASE do not settle for someone who doesn't give a damn about you. Honey, you can do SO much better by yourself. You don't need her to get through your crisis. Why? Because I have it too. Yes! I'm 20 years old and just RECENTLY found out I got gential (genital) warts AND I got to have surgery to get mines removed. But I'm NOT going back to the one who gave it to me because his a dog! And he is no good, so why settle for less when you could have the best? Sweetie, you will get through this. They will go away, but you keep dreading about it. Trust me, be strong and love yourself. This girl doesn't care about anyone, but herself. She's not worth it; do not wait for her. Someone will love you, regardless, if you got it or not. They will treat you so much better and support you no matter what. One thing is for sure you should never settle for someone who has something you got, like HPV, AIDS, HIV, HERPES, AND CLAYMEDIA(SP?) because you can do bad all by yourself. I rather be alone then to be with someone who treats me like dirt.

P.S.

BE SAFE!
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