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Lapdance and warts

I have posted this question before but have new facts to add. I received and extensive lap dance (2 for about 3 minutes and 1 for 30 mins) from the same dancer in Oct. She grinded on my penis through my jeans and underwear for a good bit of these dances. I became paranoid in Dec that I had something on my penis. Went to the doc and he said it was fine and didn't see anything. Went back a couple weeks later and diff dr. said the same.

My girlfriend of several years went to her dr for check-up and had a small white spot near her vagina. She has worts 15-20 years ago. Doctor removed and biopsied it. Came back a wart. I then went back to the dr and he said still didn't see anything and the redness I was worried about it normal. I asked about a definitive test but he said it wasn't needed. I trust my GF completely and she told me about her warts before but has never had any. Is it possible stress caused them to come back? It was just one.

Please help. I have turned to doctors in person but the answers just aren't helping. Oh, I swear I see things on my penis, but then it could be my mind.
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You absolutely cannot get STDs with your clothes on.
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I meant to add that I definitely had clothes on. Jeans and underwear. She had on a thong, but that isn't really much. I have actually seen the dr 3 times, one of them twice.
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I know I should stop worrying, but it just seems weird. Once my GF found hers, I was freaked out as all I have done is get the lapdances. Stupid, but something I thought was safe from diseases. It could be just a coincidence.
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Hi,

This is going to sound very simple, but stop looking at your penis so closely.  Most genital skin has some sort of variation.  If you have really been seen by 2 dr's and they both tell you there is nothing to worry about, then listen to those dr's.  

By the way, you can't get warts from a lap dance at a strip club if your clothes are on.  You can't get any STD from a lap dance.  Even if the stipper had an active STD, a lap dance isn't a risk factor because your clothes are on.   Now, if you were naked and she was naked and had warts, then yes, that it possible.

Your girlfriends warts however  could come back.  If her immunity is low, and she is under stress, the warts could come back.  Even this isn't an issue b/c they are cosmetic and not the cancer causing variety.  A dermatologist can give you something to burn off the warts.  Or, the dermatologist could burn them off at his office.

I have high risk HPV and am sure that there's some low-risk (wart causing type) in the mix too.  Still, I never had a wart in my life.  Honestly, not even on my hand or foot or anywhere else people get them.  

So, just having the wart causing  HPV doesn't mean you will get wart.

Relax, chill out, stop looking at yourself so closely.   Don't worry, be happy.  Good luck.  Peace out.
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