is there other ways of catching them? also he is accusing me of having them but i dont have any symptoms could i still have the infection? and is there a chance i have already caught them through straight sex
contact, chances are you're infected too. Some people take many months to show symptoms and others won't ever show symptoms. Because of this it's hard to trace the infection, and you both shouldn't worry about who gave it to who first. He could've infected you or you could've infected him, either way, it doesn't really matter. HPV infection does not always indicate infidelity in a monogamous relationship. Personally, I would see a doctor for a pelvic exam and explain the situation to him.