Either way dude, you're not going to "dye" (I think you mean "die"). It's not fatal.
Ram-
Simply, there are no symptoms for HPV. The only way you would know if you had HPV would be if you developed genital warts. If you don't have them by now, it's getting increasingly unlikely that you will. Even if you don't, you could have contracted a high-risk strain of HPV (which has no symptoms whatsoever).
The easiest any of us can put it is that if she had HPV, you could have been at risk. The unfortunate part is that you will probably never know if you don't develop warts. Regardless, the infection will come and go in two years or less.
no afterthat i didnt had sex. now 84 days over. i dont know whether i affected or not... pls reply what will be the symptoms for hpv...
ramboram,
It's difficult to comment on your post because I feel it hasn't been specific enough. If I gather correctly, you had a condom on and she had on underwear. You rubbed between her legs and the condom pulled off and you proceeded to rub without it. This was 75 days ago and you haven't had sex since? Not sure about that part.
Admittedly, that's not much to use to make any declarations about risk in your situation. However, there are some facts that you can fill in the blanks with.
You can get HPV from not penetrating sex. If she has any contagious part of her that you are rubbing, then the transfer can be made. If you lost your condom and her underwear moved off to side and there was direct skin on skin contact, then yes, you could have been exposed to HPV.
If this was 75 days ago there are some things that can be said. If you were exposed to HPV that causes warts, then there is a good chance you would have noticed them by now. Warts seem to make an appearance in most cases within three months of exposure. There is a chance that you were exposed to warts and will never show symptoms. That does happen. But you can't assume that is what happened to you because then you are living in fear and acting on an assumption that probably isn't true anyways. So if you don't have any warts on your stuff, I'd go ahead and say you don't have them.
There is another type of HPV virus out there. It doesn't cause warts and is undetectable in men and has no harmful side effects (Technically, warts don't have harmful side effects either unless you count the mental stuff that can go along with it). For women however there can be harmful side effects down the road, namely cervical cancer. When a woman goes to the doctor and he swabs the inside of her vagina, the cells can be found to be "abnormal". Even then it's not dangerous, but over time these abnormal cells can become cancerous.
So to sum up. You may have contracted the high-risk HPV virus that doesn't show up in you in any way you can notice or discover. I find you risk on the low end of the spectrum, but only you know how long and what intensity the genital skin to skin contact was. I don't think you need to worry too much though. Also, you may have exposed yourself to warts but since you don't have any yet it seems safer and safer to say every day that you did not get exposed to them.
I think your exposure chances aren't as great as you are freaking out about.
Also, learn that HPV is not as big a deal as you think it is. If you read some other posts here, especially those by a guy monikered DasKapital, you will learn that even if you do have the virus, your immune system will fight it off within two years maximum and you will be alright. If you have a lot of questions, please, read some of these other posts. Good luck. Soudns like you must be okay though. Hopefully you can believe that soon.
pls help me ... save me.. other wise my mind is thinking to dye