to tell her because we just got engaged. I dont want her to think i cheated on her bc i did not. I must have gotten it before bc i had alot of partners. I am afriad she will think i lied and been hiding this from her for years. How can i tell her ?? any edvice ,,, please..
Just tell her exactly what you said here in this forum! You had no prior knowledge until recently and just keep telling her you didn't cheat at all (and be very confident about it). Tell her you did some research before telling her and that it can pop up at anytime..you could have it for yrs and not know it. And, research the subject with her too. It'll help reassure her that you care. Good luck!