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plz help me i am rdy to kill myself over this

i know i am not supposed to post here but no one ever answers in the HPV forum so i am taking my chances, and thank you to anyone who helps me...i rly need it. i have been seeing this girl and we have had unprotected sex a few times now. for the past while i was under the impression that i had genital warts but all the dermatologists and doctors i have seen say they see nothing wart like and what i am showing them is normal skin variants. I have been rly trying hard to come to terms with my obsession and thought i finally got it under control. seeing this girl helped, i never told her about my obsession but it helped me not think about it. I was checking my penis today and i noticed what seems to be alittle skin growth on the shaft. it was not hard rly and it was quite pliable, which isnt a characteristic for warts. i scratched the area abit and unfortunately took away the skin including the area in question, now its just a wound. i know it isnt likely i can scratch off a wart but i saw something that i scratched off. I am now freaking out that it was a wart and that i gave my HPV to this poor girl!!! i cannot imagine living my life knowing i gave this to someone!!! again i am not sure if this was a wart but now i am lost. I do not want to tell her and freak her out so that she dosnt want to see me anymore because it may have been nothing, a simple skin variant like the others have been. what do i do??? plz help me i rly like this girl  
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Honestly if none of your past partners have told you that they contacted HPV, and the drs have told you that you do not have symptoms then it's safe to say that you can atleast have protected sex with the girl. Shoot honestly we all don't know who has it and who doesn't. There may be a slim chance that you have it, but just as much of a chance that your new girl has it. It's so hard to know with out real symptoms. But don't stress over it unless you have obvious symptoms, or if your past partners tell you that they were diagnosed.
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No i was never told by any of my past partners that they have hov but i started obsessing over this thought awhile ago and have no been able to shake it. So you think its ok for me to continue intercourse with this girl, i was at the dermatologists office last week and the week before and he said he saw nothing...
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I was told by a dr. that I was infected with hpv. My ex girlfriend
had a cauliflower patch on her vagina and I was told
that my physical symtoms (3 white spots on my penis head are pearly papules varicocele). I was told I don't have hpv becsause I don't have
genital warts on my penis.
  I am confused as to whether I have hpv or not. I just started dating
a very nice lady and was wondering if I can have sex with her.
               Thanks so much doctor,
                   DMo
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First off why do you think that you have HPV?? Did one of your previous partners have it? I've heard that men tend to not have symptoms. Try drinking St worts tea, it will help you with anxiety. Stop looking at your privates all the time. Unless you have a cauliflowered wart on it you shouldn't obsess. Next time you have a bump ask the dr to test it! Infact demand that you get a biopsy done. But only do so if it's a noticeable bump.
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