plz need help with hpv transmisiting

[raymm121]

hi everyone thank you in advance for the help!

im a married man and made a huge mistake one day saw a (black)girl on the street and she started flirting with me she took me into her home and she started sucking on my penis with out a condom then he/she told me they were a transsexual.=[ ******** lasted 3 minutes not more didn't finish in her mouth either.

I have done a lot of test (live in the u.s) im 24 male!

TEST DONE

1.G/C test 3 days ,1,2,3,4,6 weeks
ALL NEGATIVE THANK GOD (CONCLUSIVE)
2. did a lot of RPR w reflex test for syphilis 3 days 1,2,3,4,6,7 weeks after
ALL NEGATIVE THANK GOD (is this conclusive result?)
3.did a lot of hsv1/2 TESTED POSITIVE FOR HSV1 =[ AND NEGATIVE FOR HSV2 3,4,6 weeks (7 week test did not come back yet)
4.did an  HIV RNA 3 days 1,2,3,4 weeks
ALL NEGATIVE THANK GOD
4a) did an HIV 4th gen 3 days 1,2,3,4,6,7 weeks
ALL NEGATIVE THANK GOD
5.did an HEPATITS,a,b,c test (hav hcv) 3 days 1,2,3,4,6,7 weeks
ALL NEGATIVE THANK GOD

ME AND MY WIFES SYMPTOMS
I been having night sweats not sleeping well at all taking anxiety meds to help me sleep sweaty palms and not really hungry.

MY WIFE is been itching for about 2 weeks now mainly her head, feet,& eyes also her back, but, vagina,and legs (she also has something under one of her toes idk if its a blister from her heels or syphilis)
THIS IS WHAT SCARES ME!!

MY QUESTIONS ARE
1, if I tested negative for everything besides the HSV1 (positive) could I have gave my wife anything from my exposure to her in-between my 7 week test that came negative?
2. my doctor said I could have had the hsv1 before I took my test so idk what to do ( I feel like I gave my wife the hsv1 and that's why shes itchy and does she or I need treatment)?
3. how conclusive is my results so far for syphilis, hiv, hep a,b,c?
4. do the test change usually from 6-12 weeks?
5. when is my test results 100% conclusive for syphilis hiv and hepatitis?
(I KNOW FOR HSV2 COULD TAKE A WHILE)
6.when is the latest anyone reported an outbreak of herpes hsv2 after exposure?
7. AND MAINLY WHEN CAN I MOVE ON?????????????

PLEASE SOME ANSWERS
AGAIN THANK YOU

[michelle21689]

What does her being black have to do with anything?

[veryworried420]

HSV2 testing is only solid at the 8 week or 12 week mark, post exposure. Whatever you did before then was a waste of money. All other tests you took produced accurate results. Most people (90%) have HSV1. It comes from kissing and sharing drinks/cigs. It can be passed to genitals if an infected person performs oral sex on someone.
To answer your questions:
1. No, although no one can predict your HPV health.
2. Your wife should get blood tested for HSV1. She may not have it. But if she does, treatment only occurs if one has a cold sore.
3. Very conclusive except Herpes.
4. Tests do not change but like I said, Herpes is meant to be tested at the 8 week or 12 week (most accurate) time.
5. Those STD tests are conclusive after 2 weeks, at most.
6. Most Herpes break outs occur within 2 weeks after exposure. Some unlucky people get them years later but this is very rare.
7. You should move on now. You cannot get tested for HPV. Your wife can get tested for HPV and she should. The odds of getting infected from one sex encounter (even with a TV) are very low. You have been tested too much. Other than the 12 week test for Herpes, no other tests are recommended. Please move on.