Hi, Unfortunately you have had several common complications of sling surgery. One of the possible complications of the TOT is erosion of the synthetic mesh into the vagina. Your doctor did the appropriate thing and removed the eroded mesh. Sometines the patient stays dry, other times the stress incontinence recurs and the patient needs another sling. A possible complication of the TVT approach is injury to blood vessels in the pelvis around the bladder and pelvic floor muscles and tissues. The risk occurs when passing needles to place the sling and can happen to any patient. Bleeding can also occur during the dissection to put the sling around the urethra. A hematoma is a blood collection in the space around the bladder/urethra and is usually self limited and will stop spontaneously. Rarely is another operation required. Unfortunately you may have pelvic discomfort for a few weeks until the hematoma gets reabsorbed. If the pelvic pain is untolerable a CAT scan guided drain can be placed into the collection for drainage and relief of the pressure, but this has potential complications as well. If you are symptomatic from the blood loss including dizziness and lightheadedness, and/or your blood count continues to drop, you may need a blood transfusion. Going back to the OR now could be dangerous and cause more bleeding. Unfortunately I agree that the best thing is to wait it out, assuming the bleeding as stopped, and the hemoglobin is stable. Let the hematoma resolve and see what happens to the incontinence problem three months post op. If your doctor is experienced doing slings then he/she knows how to handle this complication. It's almost always best to avoid more surgery at this point. Report any fever, chills or worsening pain to your doctor immediately. Good Luck