A year ago next weekend, I drank from a cup that (I found out) had been used by several people before me. Later that evening, I received a brief (but long-enough to swap spit) open-mouth kiss from someone who I would say "Get's around." Yes, I was at a party. Call it day zero.
Fast forward nine days. My face began to itch around my mouth. It itched constantly, like every 20 seconds, basically from just below my nostrils to the bottom of my chin then entire time I was awake. I never had a noticible fever, sore throat, swollen lymph nodes, or lesions anywhere. I did notice mucocele (tiny pus-filled sacs about 1 mm in diameter, apparently caused by blocked salivary glands -- if that was the correct diagnosis. They were painless and eventually resolved.) inside my upper lip for the first time in my life. I felt and looked horrible enough that my co-workers asked if I was OK, but I never felt bad enough to miss work. I did come home and take a nap until it was time to go to sleep. This malaise lasted about from day 12 to day 17.
Thinking that I might have oral herpes, I went and got tested. I was also tested for chlymidia, HSV 1, HSV 2, HIV, gonorhea, syphylis -- all the usual suspects. I came back barely positive for HSV1 (as in 1.10 when the cut-off was 1.09 units). Negative for everything else. I had two courses of Valtrex, with no change in symptoms. I have since been tested for HSV about 3 more times -- all negative, and I never had any lesions.
The symptoms seemed to change over about the first 30 days since presumed exposure. I always had the facial itching, but I went through a period where I felt like I had bad breath all the time, and also felt like I needed to floss all the time. That lasted for a couple of days near day 30.
My facial itching has declined over time, but starting at about day 60, my lips felt as if they had been rubbed with sandpaper. They were and continue to feel somewhat numb and irritated. Topically-applied hydrocortisone and later mometisone (a stronger cortisone) had no effect.
About 10 months after presumed exposure, I noticed that my testicles seemed to be sweaty -- not actually dripping wet like real sweat, just an unusual sticky feeling all the time, starting as soon as maybe an hour after a shower. No odor, no lesions, no discharge -- just a sticky feeling. Neither my primary care physician nor two infectious disease specialists can identify the cause of the symptoms. Can you? Thanks, P