CHEMICAL PREGNANCY, what is going on?

[penggal1]

Hi guys, i just got married May 23rd 09 and prior to that was not really sex active, we went on our honey moon June 2nd to June 13th. I think i got preg right before we went away and right after the wedding. While i was away June 2nd maybe the 1st or 2nd night in Aruba i Spotted for one day, as if i messed up my pills, every time i mess up i will spot, the type of pill i take i never get my period unless i spot. Durring the month of our wedding i was not consistant with it. So anyway, i thought i was spotting so i took my pill. June 18th day before fathers day i got a Pos test and was very hungry. No Breast tenderness or throwing up. So once i found out i was prego i assumed the bleeding was the implantation bleeding, which made sense. I went to a few days ago last Fri and they told me because i don't get my AF it is hard to know if i was too early to see anything, they did a internal sono and it showed the lining being thick, at that point we were assuming i was around 4 weeks, and that is why we saw no baby, he said that was normal. But to do the BETA blood test anyway. So they called me today to tell me that i was not Prego and that my levels where back to sqaure one, and that i had a chemical pregnancy, and that it didn't just happ because my levels would still be high. One thing i remember looking back when i was in Aruba a few days after i bleed that one day, i was in the pool, and when i got out i felt this ODD, never before feeling of water gushing out like i was peeing my self, and it cont for a few moments, it was not blood, was that all part of the m/c?? This is so weird to me, for the past 3 weeks i thought i was prego and im not. Any words of wisdom, also is it easier you think to try again now? So upset!!!

[pinkbelle]

i think a chemical pregnancy is different from a miscarriage.. a chemical pregnancy isn't usually caught b.c we assume the bleeding is just a late period..   i miscarried at 8 weeks and there was some blood and some clots.. it lasted about 4-5 days then i was done bleeding.

[penggal1]

Hey, no it is Def a M/C just really early. A lot of them are due to that person taking BC right before hand. people don't really understand how the BC not only prevents you from getting preg but also makes you abort if you get prego, but women do not know this because the mc comes in the form of your period, but it really is not. For me, i only bled one day and was prob only a week or 2 prego. Read this article i found it is crazy.

http://www.epm.org/artman2/publish/prolife_birth_control_pill/A_Short_Condensation_of_Does_The_Birth_Control_Pill_Cause_Abortions.shtml

[penggal1]

Actually today i spoke with my dr again, and im now un certain if i was even pregnant, it is the weirdest thing, the one day i bled on June 3rd could have been the ony time i m/c since there was no other bleeding, and then 17 days later the test came out pos, it was my first test, i schedualed a Dr apt the following fri which was June 26th, they saw no baby because they assumed it was too early, the only thing they saw was the thickening of the uterus, then on monday, the 29th, they said my levels were at 0. So basicly, im clueless......any words of wisdom.??