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Cramps after IVF egg transfer..Normal?.day 5
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Thanks for the welcoming messages. It's been 14 days since my HCG shot, what do you think the liklihood of it still being in my system is? I had 3- 3 day embryos transfered. If I took a HPT test, is a false positive pretty likely? Has anyone had a false positive result?
I know I only have until Tuesday until my bloodtest, we're just getting anxious....very anxious. I am tempted to cheat. I have one of the digital tests in my cupboard calling my name.
Congratulations!!! That's wonderful news!! Keep us posted with your numbers after your blood test tomorrow. Are you in England? How many hours ahead of us(U.S.A) are you?
Hi Nickie,
I have the Sunday night blues:( It's so hard to go back to work after being off for so long. Are you going to start your acupuncture anytime soon? I spoke to the acupuncturist that was referred to me and she wants me to start this week. Now we can be acu buddies!!
Amy,
Welcome to our world! I'm also a Kinder teacher...actually there seems to be quite a few teachers in this forum. I was told by my nurse not to take an HPT because of the possibility of a false negative, however, she did say that if you get a positive you are most probably truly pregnant. I don't think it's very common, I believe I was the only person in this forum that had a false positive. Let us know what you decide to do...Tuesday is just around the corner!!
We have to go for a scan on the 24/01/07 to check how many babies there are. I am in Scotland and not sure how many hours ahead we are! I am writing this at 09.42am on monday 8th if this helps!
My prayers are with you tomorrow!! Let us know ASAP!!
Tomorrow's the big day! I am sending you lots of prayers and positive thoughts!! Let us know when you do!
Amy the earliest you can test is 14 days from retreival date or 11 days post 3 day transfer, 9 days post 5 day transfer. I know how you feel & I have done hpt everytime. I did get a positive on day 10 post 5 day transfer with my son. Pluse the nurses at my clinic don't give bad news well, so I prefer to know myself instead of hearing ...oh...pause...sorry.
Think positive is my motto, things sounds good so far.
Louise, Wow, Scotland, I think you are 8 hours ahead of the west coast. It's 9pm 07jan09 on the west coast - canada.
Exciting news here today, sextuplets were born in Vancouver, BC on the weekend. First in Canada. Makes you feel a little better I hope Needforpassion...
I feel your fear and pain. DH and I are going to do FET in April and it is a scary thing. I guess I can only find peace in knowing that God has a plan for us. I realize that my plan may not be his, but his is going to be better. In the meantime, I will continue to pray every night for the miracle and blessing of a child. You are in my prayers!!
Hug,
Audrey
Thanks for sharing all your info. I LOVE to hear about Mommy's who have already had successful pregnancies like you and LJ. Did you also transfer blastocysts the first time? Please keep us updated on your bloodtest...sending you lots of prayers and good thoughts!
It also makes me feel really good that some of you have had success after trying multiple times. This try will be my 3rd and I'm starting to feel down and out. I don't know probably because there is no known reason. I have passed all tests with flying colors. ONLY said possibility is husbands motility which I guess is fixed through IVF ... well ICSI. I don't know, I think I'm just going through the emotions of it all. I am just so tired of trying. Ya know??
Audrey, poor you having to go back to work after all that time off. UGH. I can imagine how Monday was. Hope the week goes by fast!!! We are going to be best buddies :) IVF buddies, 2WW buddies, now ACPU buddies :) I did speak to my ACPU lady. Hubby is going to go on herbs for next month before we try IVF again. If I do enough baby dancing who knows right?? Nah, I already know that will not likely be an option (for it to happen naturally)
But like you LJ.... trying to be positive. Stranger things have happened I'm sure.
Well sorry for being a drab. Chat soon.
So glad to make this trek with ya again!! I know how you feel sweetie!! This whole process is so emotionally draining, and then to have to go through it more than once...s#%@s!!! Do you think they might want to run some more tests? I was wondering the same for myself. LJ mentioned two tests that I had never heard before...Hysteroscopy and Laproscopy. I'm going to ask my doctor about this tomorrow. You have your appointment on Thursday right? I think your idea about doing the "Baby Dance" as much as possible is great! And you're right...you never know. So amazing...I have this girlfriend who had been sorta trying to get pregnant for 10 years with no luck. In the last 5 years or so,she and her husband were not even trying at all and were rarely even doing the "Baby Dance". This past September, at the age of 38... BAM... she gets pregnant and everything has gone smoothly ever since. She's due in June. Makes you believe in miracles!! The unknown is so scary...but I know that there is something wonderful waiting for you and I up ahead!!
It was difficult going back to work and having good intentioned people come up to me and ask how everything went. I'm so grateful that I'm at the point where I can talk about it without crying! Next time around I am not going to tell very many people.
Well...at least tomorrow's Hump Day!!
Hugs
My first bloodtest on Friday morning was 6 (day 7- tested early because of the weekend). My HCG on MOnday afternoon (day 10 post transfer) was 65. . How did I get from 6 to 65? Is there anything to compare that too to see about multiples?
My doctor said I am done with bloodtests and they'll see me in three weeks for an ultrasound and then they can see how many. Is that pretty much standard procedure? I thought I'd be going in regularly for blood tests to check my levels?
My nurse said I was #16 in a row of positives. They're on a roll. SO I guess they know what they're doing.
There's hope.
Just to let you know that they only check HCG levels twice, once to confirm you are pregnant and the second to confirm they are rising. 65 at day 10 sounds like a singleton, but stranger things have happened.
A hysteroscopy is a day surgery procedure where they dialate your cervix, fill your uterus with air or fluid and take a looksee with a small camera.
A laperoscopy is day surgery procedure where they make a small incision in your abdomen, usually close to your belly button to reduce scaring, and have a looksee at your ovaries, tubes & uterus.
The future is looking bright:)
Congratulations Mommies!!! I am so very happy for you both!! Please keep us posted with all the wonderful details!!
Audrey
I have an ultrasound on 24th and feel fine but am worrying about every twinge I have been feeling.I have had no crampy pains but feel aching and stretchy pains in my sides.
I am also worried about the scan in case there is something wrong.Would hormone tests prior to the scan be helpful in reassuring me that things are ok? I have made an appointment for next wednesday at my doctors.
Audream,
I was surprised that your AF came after your HPT. My AF came five days before my HPT. I wonder why. I see that you are doing your FET in April. Well, I will have my experience before you. Somehow I am a bit apprehensive and wish that you were going before me and that you would get a BFP and give me some hope here. I find myself planning financially for my second and third IVF. It is as though I cannot be so silly to believe that the FET will work. Maybe it is part of my mind trying to shield myself from the impact of another BFN. Of course I hope that it would work but for me, seeing is believing. I will be transferring two day 5 blastocysts. I hope that this time there would be some sort of assisted hatching or something to help the embies stick. I hope that we are all successful.
Bemyyear- sorry about your struggle. Even though success rates are lower with FET, you have to have hope. And if you have to go forward and pay for another IVF, that's what you'll do, but try to think it's going to happen. Will it to happen. Act as though its going to happen. I'm going to do my best to try to do that this cycle.
Audrey and LJ - I had an interesting consult with the new RE today. I still go to my RE on Saturday and will hear out what he has to say BUT.... This RE said he thinks it might be my egg quality. Explain this to me... my chart says IVF try 1 the embrios were 5 cell - which he said is not that good. He said while the second one were blasts (2 were myopians (sp??) and one was a blast), those did not look like they were growing especially well. He said he would take a more aggressive approach and try to stim for quality AND most likely put back 5 day 3. I don't know. I do like this RE but I'm not so crazy about the nurse and office. It's a bit like a factory which I don't like. But I think I'm a little tougher than I was last year just getting into this. (Back then, not as tough is why I chose my RE over this one.)
Thoughts???
I just watch in wonder when I see all of my friends who are so blessed in the fertility department.
Not to be such a downer, we know there is hope because so many people have success. It's about finding the right doctor, the right office, the right frame of mind and A LOT of money$$
I know I'll feel a lot better after my ultrasound on the 29th to see they're progressing normally.
Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. A friend of mine tried 5 times and on the 6th try she got pregnant with twins!!!!
Nicki - I don't understand this new RE. On day 3 a good embryo has 8 cells, anything less hasn't developed as much and may not go on developing. A blastocyst should occur on day 5, day 6 at the latest. I am not sure about the myopian(sp?), it sounds familiar. Blastocysts have much higher success rates as they can see the development, and that is natural stage of an embryo when it actually leaves the fallopian tubes and enters the uterus for implantation. Implantation usually happens on day 6-7. I hope this helps and always get a second opinion if you don't feel good about the results.
I would like to know why AF came before the HPT. Was the protocol used wrong for me? Well enough of me.
Nicki, do you think that the doctor made an error or was it deliberate? When I read about the factory I could not help but laugh. I visualised what in their might have looked like. If you are not comfortable, then perhaps you should not go unless that clinic has good results. Let us hope that his aggressive approach would not result in overstimulation. I like the idea of him putting in more than 2, but 5. That seems a bit high. Why not 4? 5 might be a bit too much especially if he stims for quality. But I do not know.
Amy, in 17 days you will see the ultrasound and hopefully all will be well. You have managed to have gotten over a big hurdle. Let us hope that you will be able to jump over all the other hurdles that are presented to you. If I knew that there would have been difficulty getting pregnant I would have tried from 6 years ago. If....
LJ, I will make a greater effort to be positive. I am trying to educate myself. I want to know why AF came 5 days before time to take the HPT. And the clinic might use the same protocol again. It is as though my body did not even look at the embies. If I end up going through more than two ivf's I would be disillusioned personified. But I would press on cycle after cycle until I can cycle no more.
LJ, do you know what would make a period come five days before the taking of the HPT? I was on progesterone suppositories.
Praying for you for your bloodtest today! Please let us know as soon as you do!!
Welcome Bemyyear,
It's so good to have another sister for prayers and support! I'm so sorry about your BFN. Believe me, I know how scary it is to go through this again. But, don't lose hope. Lots of women have gotten pregnant with FET. I met with my RE 2 days ago and am set for March 30. I have 5 embies and pray that 2-3 survive the thaw. The only thing we can do is have faith in God...with Him everything is possible!! We are here for you!!
As far as AF...I was told that it would not come until I got off of meds...and that's what happened. I think that LJ would be a better person to ask this question.
Nicki,
I am concerned and confused! Why the discrepancies? I'm so glad that you will see RE #1 on Saturday so that he can explain his side of the story. I feel your frustration!! It s#%@s that we have to be our own advocates...we just assume that they will take care of everything!! I know it is so important for us to find an RE that we trust AND feel comfortable with. Please keep us updated.
LJ,
Thank you for the info on the hysteroscopy and laproscopy. You are a wealth of information! You have an appt. with RE next week, right? I didn't know that you were in Canada...what part?
Big question, I just got back from the ob dr. and the night that i M/C the er tech told me that my uterus was tilted backwards???This was the first I had heard about this. Shouldn't my RE have noticed this and said something? Today my OB said the same thing?? Could this have caused me to loose the baby? Will this interfere with IVF in anyway. I know I can get preg but will I be able to carry to term and not MC again??No one can seem to tell me anything and I am freaking out here. If we are going to spend another $17,000 for Ivf I want as many facts as possible. Can anyone help please????
I started taking the following medications PRIOR to and POST transfer: Delestrogen injections every 3rd day, Progesterone injections daily, progesterone suppositories nightly, pre-natal vitamin daily (I have been taking these for a year now), and baby aspirin daily. My progesterone and estrogen levels were fine after my bloodtest. My HCG was very low. My RE is going to change the medication a little bit for the next time around. I was told by my nurse that they like to be a little more aggressive for FET because the chance of getting pregnant is lower (50% instead of 65% per my clinic). As far as the dates, because it is a frozen transfer, it is much easier to choose the transfer date. I will just stop birth control when they tell me in order to get the date I want. Did they tell you why they wanted you to do a cycle without meds? Interesting how every clinic has it's own protocol. Where is your clinic located? Mine is in Southern California, U.S.A.
I have heard about many women spotting and during their pregnancies. Could it be further implantation of the embryos? If the clinic is telling you it's normal, I would'nt worry...but do get as much rest as possible (Easier said than done, huh?) Just tell DH that he is going to be Mr. Mom for awhile!! Lol
mstrex,
I'm so surprised that the RE did not notice that your uterus was tilted!! I would definitely do some research on this and get a second opinion before doing another cycle. How could they have missed that?? Keep us posted.
I have a retroverted uterus, tilted to the back. Everyone I've spoken to said it does not affect fertility. No one had mentioned it to me until I had my hysteroscopy. I don't know if that helps. But you're not alone.
bemyyear - The progesterone doesn't prevent AF. When you have your retreival it is the same as ovulation, your AF should come 14 days later if you are not pregnant. The IVF process is hard on the body and most of the time AF arrives late thats all. It happened to me for the first time in december too, I was praying that it was implantation bleeding but I was wrong. It had never happened before, I usually got AF 3-5 days after a negative test.
Also if you are doing a natural cycle, then the doctors need to know when your cycle starts and then when you ovulate to do the FET on the right day. With meds they only need to know day 1 of your cycle, the rest they plan according to age of embryo - day 3 or day 5 transfer.
Mommy2selena - Don't worry too much about spotting as long as the blood is brown or light pink, bright red is something to call the doctor about. Cramping can also be normal, it's the uterus growing. Besides that's how we all found each other...
Audrey - Yes my appt is on tuesday. I am looking forward to it but also scared. I live in Vancouver, BC - there are two IVF clinics here but I wouldn't change from mine for anything. They are so good, great staff and they let you know every detail. I guess that's obvious.
Take care and I hope everyone enjoys their weekend:)
Mstrex, I have a tilted/retroverted uterus and while I think it could affect sperm getting to the egg via the natural way, I do not think that it would affect pregnancy once the embryo is in the uterus. But I do not know because I am still sailing in the BFN boat. Amy is proof as she is in a different boat.
Maybe when they checked your progesterone and estrogen levels they found that your body is producing enough on its own? When do you have your next consultation? Everytime I go into my doctor's office, I have a LONG list of questions. I even E-mail my doctor and he usually writes me back the same day. As we learned from LJ, we have to be our own advocates! How do you feel about getting a second opinion from another RE?
Wow, two So Cal Kindergarten teachers! What part of So Cal are you from? My clinic is Huntington Reproductive Center. There's one in Pasadena, San Fernando Valley and Laguna Niguel. They have a pretty good reputation. What school district do you work for? I work for Los Angeles Unified.
I am surprised that they did not do much testing in the initial stages of your cycle. They checked my estrogen and progesterone levels and gave me an ultrasound twice before the transfer. Did they give you a bloodtest to determine if you were pregnant or did you just have to take a HPT? I had a bloodtest taken at the clinic which came out positive, but my HCG levels were too low. I also took 2 HPTs after the bloodtest and both came out positive until I stopped taking meds. What is karotyping? I am also going to consider getting a second opinion if this 2nd cycle does not work...but I love my clinic, RE, and nurses! So, we'll see. I am going to church tomorrow, I will pray that all of us get our BFPs this time around!!
How are you sweetie? I'm sooo glad that you got that whole mess straightened out. Was it RE #2 that was looking on the wrong page?...Duh!! I'm so glad that you and DH have made a decision you both feel comfortable with. It is soo important to feel comfortable with your RE and the staff at the clinic. I'm so glad you will still have a lot of communication with your current clinic. Let us know how your appt goes with your new RE. Where is he located? What part of New York do you live in? I have visited New York quite a few times and I LOVE it!! It's got so much energy, culture, great food, nightlife etc...
I chose March 30 for my transfer date cuz it would give me even more time to rest afterwards. My Spring Break is April 2 - 6. If you, LJ and I could be 2ww buddies again, it would be awesome!! I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed!!
I started my acpu treatment on Friday and I loved it! I almost fell asleep during treatment. I'm going to see her once a week. When we get closer to the transfer date I will see her twice a week and probably afterwards as well. I really pray that this helps in some way.
Well, enjoy the rest of your weekend!!
Just a note on the Genetic Testing. I've looked into this and I know a girl that had to get this done. It's pretty expensive so think before you jump to get that done. If you have good sized embryos it's likely that there IS NOT any genetic / chromosomal problem - it's pretty much ruled out. Most RE's will not recommend that UNLESS you have poor quality embryos.
Audrey.. how are ya girl. Isn't it ssooo strange that we have 2 kindergarted teachers both from So. Calif. and aren't you both trying at your second shot?? Wow, what are the chances of that??? That's awesome that you got a date. So March 30th huh... Hope we get to wait together. It looks like my next fresh ER & ET will be around that time. We'll keep each other positive.
LJ... I'm really hoping your appointment on Tuesday goes well. Let us know how it goes and what your next steps are going to be. Did you say April was when your next try was going to be? If early April maybe me, you and Audrey can be 2ww pals together.
LJ Audrey and Bemyyear - thanks for your concern and questions in regards to RE. I think I vented like a maniac and then got some answers. It turns out my office accidentally copied the wrong day Lab report so while it looked like I transferred 4 and 5 cell embies it was b/c it was the wrong day. All i can say is DUH and DUH!!! How friggen frustrating. BUT, I did make a decision. I am going to go with my current RE's instruction and bail out of that other place I went Thursday. I'm just not comfortable there and while they have great stats, it won't do me any good if I'm aggrivated and frustrated the whole time. I am going to go with a new place but where my current RE is affiliated. He's very close with this RE and wants to be able to collaborate with him so it's a win win. The new RE has a great embryology team and he will write up this cycles protocal and do the er and et. Because it's about an hour away, I will have all my monitoring with my current RE's office so I still get to talk with him and stay with the office I'm most comfortable. So it all worked out. I think me and DH made the right call and we feel good. Will consult with him in a few weeks. Then, I'll know for sure if that's what I'm going to do.
I know what you mean about the culture etc., I live 10 minutes from Manhattan. I'm literally 5 minutes away from the Lincoln Tunnel. My office (I'm in advertising) is in Edgewater, NJ. Which is right in between the George Wash. Bridge and the Lincoln Tunnel. So I am a true Jersey Girl - minus the hairspray :)
That's great your at acupuncture. I'm going back in a few weeks. I know what you mean, it's easy to fall asleep. Probably one of the few times we can just lay there and relax right?? It's tough to juggle everything so if you're able to really relax at ACPU that's a good thing!!!
Well, Sunday blues are in officially :( Wish it were Saturday still. UGH. But oh well... Hey you got 3 more hours than I right? CA is three hours earlier... Lucky you! We'll be watching Deal or no Deal then go to bed and baby dance since I'm ovulating today and hey, you never know right...Stranger things have happened :)
Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
I know what you mean about the culture etc., I live 10 minutes from Manhattan. I'm literally 5 minutes away from the Lincoln Tunnel. My office (I'm in advertising) is in Edgewater, NJ. Which is right in between the George Wash. Bridge and the Lincoln Tunnel. So I am a true Jersey Girl - minus the hairspray :)
That's great your at acupuncture. I'm going back in a few weeks. I know what you mean, it's easy to fall asleep. Probably one of the few times we can just lay there and relax right?? It's tough to juggle everything so if you're able to really relax at ACPU that's a good thing!!!
Well, Sunday blues are in officially :( Wish it were Saturday still. UGH. But oh well... Hey you got 3 more hours than I right? CA is three hours earlier... Lucky you! We'll be watching Deal or no Deal then go to bed and baby dance since I'm ovulating today and hey, you never know right...Stranger things have happened :)
Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
I know what you mean about the culture etc., I live 10 minutes from Manhattan. I'm literally 5 minutes away from the Lincoln Tunnel. My office (I'm in advertising) is in Edgewater, NJ. Which is right in between the George Wash. Bridge and the Lincoln Tunnel. So I am a true Jersey Girl - minus the hairspray :)
That's great your at acupuncture. I'm going back in a few weeks. I know what you mean, it's easy to fall asleep. Probably one of the few times we can just lay there and relax right?? It's tough to juggle everything so if you're able to really relax at ACPU that's a good thing!!!
Well, Sunday blues are in officially :( Wish it were Saturday still. UGH. But oh well... Hey you got 3 more hours than I right? CA is three hours earlier... Lucky you! We'll be watching Deal or no Deal then go to bed and baby dance since I'm ovulating today and hey, you never know right...Stranger things have happened :)
Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
I have NO IDEA why my message posted 4 times. That's extremely wierd. I always only post it once. Sorry for that gals
Audrey, I'm in Temecula. Pacific Reproductive Center's main office is in Torrance but they have an office in Corona that I go to and one in Irvine. I think there is one in Bev. Hills too. Torrance is where they do all of the procedures. They've been in business over 30 years. I've been really happy with them so far.
Wasn't it nice having MLK's birthday off? I'm so sorry about the rash...but you're right, it is definitely worth it! Is it standard procedure to be banished from "Baby Dancing" for the first trimester? I hope so cuz I think I'd be too worried about hurting the babies if and when I get to that point. Hang in there!!
So, you're in Temecula? We're not too far from one another. Has your weather been as crazy as ours in L.A.? Last week it was hot as a Summer day on Tuesday and 39 degrees by Friday night. Half my class is either out ill or coughing and sneezing all day long. I cross my fingers every day that I do not catch anything. Thank goodness for Airborne and Emergen-C!!
How did your appointment go today with RE?
Well, my appointment today was both relieving and frustrating.
I learned that the two blastocysts that survived & transfered were not good quality. I did ask on the transfer date & the doc on that day said they were great. Oops on her part, she probably wanted me to be positive, but I hate being mislead. Anyways, with the quality they were the chances of it working were much lower. The question is why did all ten on my embryos turn out so poorly this time, possible because my estrogen levels were too high but they don't have any facts to back that up. I have always had good quality in the past & usually had at least 5 remaining for a FET. The good news is that no more testing needed, I have the go ahead to try again whenever I want. I really think I'll wait to late March/early April.
I hope all is well with everyone else out there. Hugs to you.
what does af stand for? this is my 1st time(and only) with ivf and im not familiar with the language yet...
good luck to all
what does af stand for? this is my 1st time(and only) with ivf and im not familiar with the language yet...
good luck to all
what does af stand for? this is my 1st time(and only) with ivf and im not familiar with the language yet...
good luck to all
Thanks!
The girls on here will tell you that I've said this before and I'll say it again but the truth is... your really not supposed to feel anything. Only in rare cases do people have symptoms within the first 2-3 weeks. Plus, with IVF most of the symptoms that your overthinking are more often due to the progesterone and ER (egg retrieval) procedure. That's what makes it so darn hard!!!! That's why the wait is so miserable. But hang in there to you both. Take it easy.... and go about your day. To answer your question, you can do normal activity. If you exersize, keep it to a brisk walk and don't lift anything more then 10 pounds. That's what I've heard from most places and people.
People on this board have different opinions about the HPT (home preg tests). But you can test 8 days after your transfer and its usually accurate. So test when and if you feel you can.
Hope that helps!
Audrey - hey girl... just dropping you a quick hi. Stinks your having gloomy weather. Makes for lots of sniffles. Good that your taking some of those OTC meds to keep them away. We've been lucky here in NJ until yesterday. Finally dropped down way low. It's freezing here. BBBRRRRRRR!
Mommy2Sel - good luck at the ultrasound tomorrow. Don't worry.. it's going to be fine. I know it! Let us know how you make out!
Nicki could not have said it better!! We are here for prayers and support whenever you need us!!
Mommy2Selena,
Let us know how your us appt goes tomorrow...how exciting!!
LJ,
Sorry that your appt with RE was frustrating...but...so happy that we will be 2ww buddies!! Now we just need Nicki!!
Hey Nicki,
Wow, Jersey sounds COLD! I am such a wimp...I complain when it's 50 degrees here in SoCal! I remember in 1998 standing in line in Times Square to buy theatre tickets in February and I had to run into a McDonalds and put my hands under the hot water! But I love Manhatten! You're so lucky to live so close! O.k. Nicki, I'm counting on my 2ww buddy...we got me and LJ, now we just need you!!
Times Square huh.... I know the McDonalds you ran into. Now it's even better. Charmin has FREE bathrooms for you to use that are cleaned after each use. There are like 50 stalls with hard wood floors and everything. It's awesome. Especially for someone like me who had a coctail then has to go :) I love going to the theatre. We've seen a bunch. Les Mis, Momma Mia, Rent and some others. What did you go see?
Yeah, wish I were in So. Ca able to complaign about 50 degree weather right now :)
Unbelievable about those bathrooms. Next time I am in Manhatten, I will definitely have to stop by the McDonalds just to see them! That February in 1998 we saw "Damn Yankees". I have also seen Miss Saigon, Evita, Momma Mia(Loved it!) and Phantom of the Opera. I really want to see Les Mis and Cats. So glad tomorrwo is Thursday...this week is flying by!!
Audrey is right, Nicki could not have said it better! Although I will say wait to do a hpt until 10 days post transfer especially since every hpt varies the level of hcg it detects.
Good luck to you both and stay positive for your 2ww. I know it's hard, but take it easy and enjoy the free time.
Mommy2selena - Good luck with the ultrasound. I am sure everything is okay and I am looking forward to hearing all about it.
Nicki & Audrey - I am trying to figure out my dates too. I think I will wait until my AF in march, so then my transfer date/2ww will be late March/early April. Since we were all about the same time last time, it makes sense that we'll be together again. My doctor says that making babies is in the air in spring...hopefully it's our time.
Thanks for all your responses. It is nice to have someone to talk to about all of this stuff. My husband is so nervous about it all that doesn't like to talk about it much, and we tried not to tell very many friends or family that we are doing this just in case it doesn't work. For those of you who have done IVF more then once, did the doctors tell you why it didn't work? Now I'm kind of wishing that that I would have transfered 3 blasts instead of just 2.
Good luck to all
Hope everything works out for the best...
Prayers and thoughts with everyone :)
KarrieJ - thats not totally unusual to test that soon after. I've heard from many people and doctors that when you do a blast transfer, you can test as early as 8 days after the transfer. 7?? Not sure but it's only 1 day sooner. He/she might want to check your levels on day 7 then have you back a few days later to see if the levels jumped which would mean you most likely are pg. And don't worry about the mild cramps and sore breats. That's totally normal and is a result of the progesterone. Your breast will start to get less sore. The cramps as well.... but they are mostly because of the ER procedure. I had that too. So that's cool. You may find out on Tuesday then right??
Wow...you, DH and Selena must be so thrilled!! I am so happy for you all!! Please keep in touch with us and let us know all the wonderful things that happen during your pregnancy!! Whoooooo!!!
Take care
I have been having a clear discharge.Its not bad but its enough to let u know its there. Can that be from the prog. sup. as well? Its not like the "flooding" that I read about on here...its lighter
thanks again,
Karrie
Has anyone thought about doing their BBT during the IVF process or will the meds mess that up? When I first started this process I used to temp on a regular basis, but I stopped when we started infertility treatments.
I really want to do a HPT test on Monday, but I'm scared - is it a good idea to know ahead of time, or should I wait until Wed?
Louise, Keep us posted on your ultrasound this week. It's Wednesday, right? How are you feeling?
I have mine on next Monday the 29th. As it gets closer I am getting very anxious. I just want confirmation everything is OK. I'm six weeks today but i havent had any morning sickness. A little queasiness here and there but nothing really bad. Maybe it's too early? I'm really tired by the end of the day. I still have swollen....I mean huge....breasts and unfortunately my skin is all broken out in ecxema....I keep thinking as long as I'm itching then at least my hormones are out of whack still. I've always had a little around my period but nothing like this. I should change my post name to lizard lady.
Karrie- sorry your going nuts and sorry for all your disappointments and m/c. That's so tough. Plus the fact that you said this is your last try. I know how badly you want it to work believe me! I'm keeping all fingers and toes crossed for you. And yes, the discharge is more often than not the proges. supp.
Lisa - I think you had the blast tranfer right. So you can test at home 8 days after. I forget the day you transferred but if you feel you want to go for it! Me personally, I couldn't bring myself to test the last try. I just waited for the bt. It's not a matter of if you could its a matter of "do you want to". It would most likely be accurate after the 8 days.
Hey Audrey and LJ. Hope you guys are having a nice weekend :)
I will stop temping - it is making me crazy, but then again so is this whole process. I keep getting this feeling in my lower abdomen that's hard to describe, it's not a cramp, just a wierd feeling and sometimes a little pressure - has anyone had that before?
My cycles are never 28 days I'm usually 24 to 26 days (I usually start 12 days from ovulation). Do I count my ovulation day from the time I took my HCG shot or from when they did the egg retrieval?
I'm still thinking about the HPT - I can't make up my mind - I'm scared for the outcome.
Sending lots of prayers and positive energy your way for tomorrow's test!! Please keep us posted!!
Hi Nicki
Hope you had a great weekend! The flu my students have finally caught up to me...I spent most of the weekend sleeping. Feel much better this evening.
I havent had a lot of morning sickness either but do feel sick when there are certain cooking smells. I cannot drink tea or coffee and cannot eat meat. I am living on macaroni although am making sure that I am having enough vegetables and fruit as well. I do not have a problem with breast tenderness very much which has been worrying me as everyone else seems to have it bad.I do feel extra tired and need to use the loo on a frequent basis.
I too am looking forward to my scan on Wednesday but am worrying that they might find something wrong. Hopefully the baby/ies will be fine.
Do you have problems with very vivid dreams,this has been happening to me for the past few weeks. They arent nightmares but just dreams that I can remember clearly.
My name is Marty and I have been reading your postings all morning. First I wanted to thank all of you for making this site available to help with the much needed support at this time.
My journey started in December when I visited an IVF clinic wanting to fix one of my tubes which was damaged. I was informed by the Dr that IVF was probably the best way for me to go. I just got married and have 2 older children and my husband has a son. It has been my dream to give him a baby so here I go!
I had my retrieval on the 14th and had the transfer on the 19th (Friday) at the time or retrieval I had 17 follicles of which 9 mated. We were able to wait tll day 5 and then did a transfer of 3 Morulas. I do not think any of them matured to Blastocyst and that has me pretty scared.
I rested until today Monday and now back at work. I am cramping very often and pretty constipated. I am very scared to PooPoo so I do it very carefully and drinking lots of Prune Juice. My Dr. tells me that everything went magnificent but My GOD I am so anxious to know if I am pregnant !!!
This is my first IFV treatment and at the age of 38 I hope it is my last and that we become pregnant. I would not mind having twins I am actually welcoming it.
Thank you for reading and you have any comments or good advice I will be sure to read it!
Thank you
Love Marty
I have been reading along for a couple of days now and I finally found the courage to speak up.
My transfer was on 1/15 I had 2-- 5 day blastocyst to transfer.
I have had quite a bit of cramping, breast are sore and frequent urination. Over thinking every twinge. I am driving myself crazy. This is my first IVF after trying everything else for the past 5 years. I have my pregnancy test on wed 1/24 and I am so scared. Any advise? Thoughts? confort???
Anything
Lisa
I finally broke down and took an HPT - I couldn't help myself, I've been having the strangest feeling / sensation in my lower abdomen. The test came back POSITIVE!!!!! I am so happy, but I know I still have to wait until my blood test on Wed. 1/24. Until then I'm feelling better about the whole thing. It's exhausting trying to figure out what every little twinge in my body means (or doesn't mean for that matter).
Karriej - I think today is your blood test, I hope everything went well and that it came back positive.
Best of luck to all of you.
thoughts and prayers are with you.
Karrie
good luck and keep me posted
Congratulations Mommies!! 2007 has been so good to so many!! So very happy for you!!! You are blessed!!!
Welcome LisaJane & Marty,
What you two are going through is so normal and every one of us went through the same symptoms. I know it's difficult, but just find a good way to pass the time and try not to focus too much on every cramp and twinge ( I was guilty of that too :)) We are here for you for prayers and support!! Hang in there!!
Audrey
2007 has been a good year so far, keeps me positive hearing all these great results.
LisaJane & Marty - Welcome! I was so thankful when I found this site in early December. It helped me through the 2ww and now is keeping me positive about trying again in a month or so. Taking the meds, going through ultrasounds I never thought I would experience, surviving the retrieval & the transfer is nothing compared to the anxiety and wonder of the two week wait. I too have children from a previous relationship and had a tubal ligation at a very early age(23) - bad advice from one specialist(said I would have kidney failure if I had another baby-guess he was wrong). On the positive I have conceived one amazing son through IVF, so I do feel very blessed.
Hang in there, we are all here for you. Keep us updated.
Audrey & Nicki - I hope all is well with you. Currently I am waiting for my AF - almost a week late... Driving me crazy as I want to figure out when in February I will start this whole process over again. At this rate, I will definately have my 2ww in early april.
Hugs to everyone.
Tomorrow is test day. Very, very nervous.
I will let you all know.
Audream- Thank you for the welcome YES im trying to keep focused.
I found myself very depressed last night. I bought a HPT and of course could not contain myself and took it. It gave me a negative and that made me very sad. I had the transfer done on Friday 1/19/ and took the HPT on 1/22 I think I am jumping the gun however if the HCG shot is still in my sistem how come I got a negative? I read and think too much but this is honestly nerve wrecking. I told my huband last night that I would leave this to God he is the one that walks my path therefore I need to trust in him. I was thinking if this does not work out I am going to travel to meet Dr. Berger and get my tubes fixed. IVF has literally taken it all out of me.. Realli kicked me in the butt. I still have faith that I am pregnant. My 15 year old daugther tells me "Mommy dont worry I know your pregnant" Her words keep me going...
Mommy2selena- My prayers will be with you-Im hoping everything will be fine. Have faith in God he is the miracle worker!
To everyone else Please give me some feedback as to my negative HPG!! Yes I know TOOOO SOOON!!!!
XOXOXOX Marty
I am new to this site!! I found it when I was doing a search for cramp like feelings after IVF. I had a Day 6 transfer on January 15th and I have been having a little bit of cramps and gasy does anyone know if this is normal!! I am in my 2ww and my test is not until Janu 20th and I am getting very nervous. This is my 2nd try and the last time I got the negative it was very hard for me. I am trying to decide if I should take a home preg. test!! Keep me in your prays and I will keep all of you in mine!!
Thank you
I am new to this site!! I found it when I was doing a search for cramp like feelings after IVF. I had a Day 6 transfer on January 15th and I have been having a little bit of cramps and gasy does anyone know if this is normal!! I am in my 2ww and my test is not until Janu 20th and I am getting very nervous. This is my 2nd try and the last time I got the negative it was very hard for me. I am trying to decide if I should take a home preg. test!! Keep me in your prays and I will keep all of you in mine!!
Thank you
I also have all the cramping and the gas. I keep hoping I am pregnant. I look pregnant, my belly looks like I am going into my third month and mind you I have a very flat stomach!
Lets just PRAY that the cramping are the embryos doing their thing! That is all we can do. As far as my advice you cant rely on the test even though I did it I wish now I wouldnt have :)
By the way- I am driving my husband CRAZY. He use to get home around 8.00 now its getting closer to 10.00, I know hes told me Im impossible :(
Marty
I am new to this site!! I found it when I was doing a search for cramp like feelings after IVF. I had a Day 6 transfer on January 15th and I have been having a little bit of cramps and gasy does anyone know if this is normal!! I am in my 2ww and my test is not until Janu 20th and I am getting very nervous. This is my 2nd try and the last time I got the negative it was very hard for me. I am trying to decide if I should take a home preg. test!! Keep me in your prays and I will keep all of you in mine!!
Thank you
I gave a rather personal question. My Dr. has recommended no sexual activity until we know if we are pregnant or not however I have read this on several websites:
http://www.ivf-indiana.com/education/ivf-patient-info.html
Some studies have suggested that you should have regular intercourse during this period. It is possible that seminal fluid has factors in it that may help with implantation.
Girls what are your thoughts on the matter?
THX XOXOX Marty
Marty - don't worry too much about the test coming back negative - I did the same thing 6 days after my transfer and got a negative (it was way too early). Even though it made me sad and anxious, the good news was that I new the HCG shot was out of my system and if I did another one the results might be more accurate (and now I have a positive!:) I go in for my blood test tomorrow, I'm still nervous, I'm hoping everything will still be okay.
Mommyselena - I hope everything turns out okay for you - my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Take care everyone!
Marty - I was told by my RE that we couldn't have intercourse the entire first trimester - which seems a little extream, but it took so long for us to get here that I'm going to follow his orders, no matter how much it kills my husband:)
Welcome Jenelyn - I took my HPT 10 days after my transfer, but from what I read on this site you can take it as early as 8 days. Anything before then might not be accurate. Good luck, I know how hard it is to wait for the results.
Lisa
Marty- My doctor also said "complete pelvic rest"...which means no loving for the whole first trimester. I have read that oragasms can cause contractions of the uterus and make it difficult for the embryos to implant and stay there. In normal pregnancies they seem to think it's OK.
I know it's hard. I have been suffering with this particular aspect too. Especially since my husband has been so awesome at taking care of me lately and he's just so darn hot.
Just one more thing to add to my list of waits.:)
Audrey & LJ - I think that makes 100% positive outcomes so far in 2007. Let's keep it up girls. Our time is coming soon. LJ I'm waiting for AF too. I should be getting it any day now. I'm a bit crampy so probably going to come tomorrow. Audrey I hope your feeling better : ( sorry you caught the flu.
LisaJane & Marty - This site has been great. Glad you both found it. Sorry your going through the horrendous 2ww. Marty... you can't get bummed about the test. WAY TOO EARLY GIRL. 8 days after is the minimum wait after a blast. LisaJane, I'm keeping fingers crossed for you. I know your nervous. We've all been there. And we're here for ya. Hope to hear good news from you tomorrow. Good luck.
Jenlyn - I don't know if you did a 3 or 5 day transfer but after a 5 day, you can test 8 days later. The bloodtest will comfirm afterwards but it's usally accurate. For 3 days, I think you have to wait 12 days.
Sammi - welcom to you too. Gasy and pressure is totally normal. Unfortunately our body has gone through a lot when doing IVF so it's all normal. Hang in there. I hope you get great news soon.
Please let us know how you are doing! I am praying for you! I think I remember LJ saying that she bled for days when she was pregnant with her son and everything turned out perfect! So glad you have lots of doctors taking care of you...I feel sure that everything will be alright. We are here for you!!
Hi Marty,
I agree with everyone else that it is way too soon for HPT. Try again in a few days. You gals are so brave...I am so afraid of those things. Next time around I will definitely not even buy one! You are so right and I couldn't agree with you more...with God everything and anything is possible!!! Keep the faith!!!
Lisa,
Thinking of you for tomorrow's test! God Bless!! Please keep us posted.
Welcome Jenlyn and Sammyrae,
Wow, we sure have an amazing support system here! I can't believe that this forum got started only 2 1/2 months ago... and we are going strong!! Thoughts and prayers for you!!
Hi Nicki & LJ,
You are so right girls...2007 looks like the year for babies!! We are soo in sync, My AF came later than both of yours but now all three of us are starting around the same time...I should start in 3 days. I do remember my nurse saying that AF may start late this cycle, so we'll see. Take Care.
Let us know how you're ultrasound appt goes tomorrow...will be thinking of you!
Louise - good luck at the ultrasound looking forward to hearing the results. More than one baby...seems the trend lately.
Lisajane - good luck with your test - fingers crossed.
Lisa - look forward to hearing about your levels...multiples are in for 2007...
Marty - I totally agree with Nicki - WAY TOO EARLY GIRL. 8 days after is the MINIMUM wait after a day 5 transfer. It takes 24 to 48 hours for implantation, then the HCG doubles every 2-3 days. Also no sex for the 2ww, I have read that uterus contracts can prevent implantation - if not why risk it. BUT I wouldn't wait the entire first trimester unless there were complications or multiples. The reasoning is that m/c are most common in the first 12 weeks. And since we all have put so much effort into getting pregnant, we are going to be a little more cautious.
Sammi - Progesterone can do a number on our bodies. Try to stay positive and busy-mentally.
Welcome Jennifer & SammyRae - glad you found us.
Unfortunately I think I am coming down with the flu, wish it was morning sickness...
Lisa/Amy/NickyMike/Audream/LJ/and the rest of you wonderful ladies:
THANK YOU for all you words I dont know what I would do without this site. I am eager to log on and read all the positive things being discussed here all the time. It lights up my day to get on this site ~~~~You are ALL GREAT~~~
Im a little better today and feeling much more positive than yesterday. Im cramping on a lot and pretty bloated.. Just hoping the babies have implanted!!
About the loving---Understood---
The husband will just have to wait....We have come a long way to have any setbacks.
God Bless us ALL!!
Love Marty
The Baby:
Pregnancy Weeks 1 to 4
The fertilized egg is undergoing rapid cell division. It will implant in your uterine lining this week. Once implantation occurs, it's called a blastocyst and is very tiny. It only measures 0.1-0.2 mm in diameter.
A yolk sak has developed and will be the nourishment for baby until the placenta is formed and takes over. Did you know that the sex and other characteristics of your baby have already been decided? It's all in the DNA code that was formed when the sperm and egg first met.
Pregnancy Week 5
This week, your baby is about 0.05 inch long. The central nervous system, muscles and bone are in the early stages of developing. Baby is also developing a skeleton
Pregnancy Week 6
Baby has grown a quite a bit this past week. The average embryo is about .16 inch at this stage. This measurement is taken from crown to rump. This is the beginning of the embryonic period. It lasts until your 10th week. Lots of important growth takes place during this time. There are three germ layers - the ectodermal, which becomes the central and peripheral nervous systems, skin, hair, nails, sweat glands and more. The mesodermal layer, which becomes muscle, cartilage, blood vessels, kidneys and spleen, and lastly, the endodermal, which forms the liver, pancreas, bladder, tonsils, thryroids gastrointestinal tract and respiratory system. The limb buds can be seen, eyes are forming and the heart begins to beat
Pregnancy Week 7
By the end of this week, baby will be between .44 and .52 inch long!! This is about the size of a kernel of corn or a green pea. You can now see where the arm buds are separating into hands as well. The heart has divided into right and left chambers and the primary airways have developed in the lungs.
Pregnancy Week 8
The crown to rump length of your baby is .56 - .8 inch now. So many things are changing in your baby every day now. If you could look at your baby closely, you'd see the tip of his nose and the eyelids developing, ears are forming as well. The heart and lungs are continuing to develop and now the bronchi (the tubes that lead to the the lungs from the trachea) are starting to branch out. Arms are growing longer and baby now has elbows!!! All this just 6 weeks after conception!!
Pregnancy Week 9
Can you believe that your baby is now an inch long? That's right, the average embryo is .9 - 1.2 inches long at this point. This week, you could now see your baby's external ears. Feet and hands are continuing to form and the fingers and toes are starting to be visible. Baby is now moving about, although you probably won't feel this movement until about your 16th week
Pregnancy Week 10
This week, your growing baby is about 1.25 - 1.70 inches long, and weighs just under a quarter of an ounce. If your could see your baby, you would think how much he looks like a tiny human now. This is the end of your embryonic period and the beginning of your fetal period. Baby is now considered a fetus! By the end of this week, baby's organs and systems are all formed, and now just continue to develop and grow.
Pregnancy Week 11
The length of your baby this week is an average of 1.75 - 2.4 inches and your baby weighs about 0.3 ounces. You baby is entering into another rapid growth period, in fact, in the next few weeks, you can expect baby's length to double!! Baby's head is about half the length of the body now. Beginning this week, the external genitalia is developing, although it's still too soon to tell if you are having a girl or boy by ultrasound.
Pregnancy Week 12
Half an ounce!! That's how much, on the average, your baby weighs. She is about 2.5 inches long. All that growth in just 10 short weeks since conception. You can probably hear your baby's heartbeat with a doppler at your appointment this month. The pituitary gland is starting to produce hormones, such as growth hormone, prolactin, corticotropin and others. Ossification is beginning, and there are now bone formations. Fingernails continue to grow, and baby is developing hair. Fingers and toes are fully separated.
Pregnancy Week 13
From 2.5 - 3 inches long and from .5-.7 ounces, that's how big your little one is now. Baby's face is now starting to look like, well, a baby. The eyes move closer together, and the ears move to the normal places. Baby's head which is currently about half the length of the crown to rump measurement, begins to slow down. By the time baby is born, his head will be about 1/4 of the total length. This week,baby's intestines, which have been developing outside the body in the umbilical cord, will be drawn into the abdominal cavity.
Pregnancy Week 14
It's been 3 months (12 weeks) since conception, your baby is now about 3.5 inches long and weighs almost a whole ounce! Baby's neck is growing longer and stronger. Just a couple of weeks ago, baby's chin had to rest on his chest, now it no longer has to. Baby is still developing external genitalia, but its a little easier to tell a boy from a girl at this point.
Pregnancy Week 15
Fine hair is starting to cover baby this week. It's called lanugo. Bones are getting harder and retaining calcium. (Be sure to get your daily allowance of calcium in!!) Baby can suck his thumb now, and many moms to be, have seen them doing this on ultrasounds. Baby's skin is still very thin, and the blood vessels can be seen through it. By the end of this week, your baby is about 4 inches long and weighs 1.75 ounces.
Pregnancy Week 16
This may be the week you feel your baby move. This is sometimes called "quickening" It's been described as a "flutter" or "butterflies". Don't be too worried if you don't feel it yet. It may be as late as your 20th week before you feel those first little flutters. The lanugo hair is present, and covers your baby's head and body. Your baby is still growing and this week measures about 4.5 inches long, and weighs almost 3 ounces!
Pregnancy Week 17
This week, your baby is starting to develop fat layers. Did you know that by the time your baby is born, fat layers will be about 3/4 of his total weight? Speaking of weight, your little one now weighs on the average 3.5 ounces and is almost 5 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 18
This week your baby is about 5.6 inches long and by the end of the week will weigh about 5 ounces! She is really growing! You are also growing as well, Mom! You can probably feel your uterus just under your navel. You have probably gained about 10 to 12 pounds.
Pregnancy Week 19
Baby's weight this week averages around 8 ounces. Pregnancy lengths were measured as head to rump, but now well start using head to toe measurements. Using this method, your little one is almost 9 inches long Baby teeth have developed in the gums and the bud for permanent teeth are just starting to form. Baby is just starting to be aware of sounds outside the uterus, and you may feel baby startle at unexpected noises.
Pregnancy Week 20
Half way there!!!! Baby is now starting to form vernix. This is a greasy, white substance that protects baby from the amniotic fluid. Usually, by the time you deliver, most of it's gone, but sometimes, you may see remnants of it. Baby is now about 9.5- 10 ounces, and is about 10 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 21
You can probably feel your growing baby move around quite a bit by now. You may be able to see little kicks and punches on your abdomen. Baby may be soothed by you rubbing your tummy and talking gently to him. Growth is starting to slow down some, but he is still almost 12 ounces. The average length is about 11 inches.
Pregnancy Week 22
Each week, your baby looks more and more like he will at birth. His head is more in proportion to his body at this point. He weighs about 12.5 ounces, and is about 12 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 23
Boy or girl? Do you know which you are having? Did you know that if it's a girl, her ovaries already contain several millions eggs? In boys, the scrotum is well developed. Have you started reading up on circumcision so you can make your choice regarding it? Now is a good time to start researching your decision, if you haven't already. Baby now weighs about 15 ounces and is about 12.5 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 24
Boy or girl? Do you know which you are having? Did you know that if it's a girl, her ovaries already contain several millions eggs? In boys, the scrotum is well developed. Have you started reading up on circumcision so you can make your choice regarding it? Now is a good time to start researching your decision, if you haven't already. Baby now weighs about 15 ounces and is about 12.5 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 25
Hiccups? Have you felt your baby get them yet? Do you know what causes them? Baby is now beginning to practice breathing. He is inhaling and exhaling the amniotic fluid. Sometimes, he may swallow too much, giving himself the hiccups! He is about 13.5 inches long, and weighs about a pound and a quarter.
Pregnancy Week 26
Baby is still continuing to develop her fat stores, This will help her regulate her body temperature when she is born. She weighs about 1.5 pounds now, and is about 13.25 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 27
Babies begin practicing sucking this week. In fact, some babies may even suck their thumbs or fists. Usually by this week, your baby will be opening his eyes. He can see light through your abdomen. He's about 14.25 inches long and weighs almost 2 pounds
Pregnancy Week 28
Your baby is now fully formed. If she were born now, she would have a good chance of survival, even though her systems would still be very immature. She weighs about 2.4 pounds and about 15.25 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 29
Baby now takes up most of the space in your uterus. His eyelashes and eyebrows are fully grown, and he has hair on his head, which is still growing. He can open and shut his eyes, and is beginning to start to focus them. He weighs about 2.5 pounds, and is 15 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 30
Because she is getting so big, you will probably begin to notice her movements aren't as vigorous. She is probably curled up into the fetal position, with her arms and legs crossed. She weighs about 3 pounds, and is about 16.8 inches long now.
Pregnancy Week 31
While baby's lungs still aren't mature yet, most of his other body systems are completely developed. His nerve cells and connections are functioning, and he can feel pain. You can even make him move if you push on your abdomen. He's almost 18 inches long, and weighs almost 3.5 pounds
Pregnancy Week 32
Baby now weighs about almost 4 pounds and is about 18.9 inches long. She will soon be settling in head down, to get ready for birth.
Pregnancy Week 33
The vernix that your baby started developing earlier is getting quite thick now. His lungs are still not quite mature, but he is practicing breathing more and more each day. He weighs around 4.4 pounds, and is 19.4 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 34
this week, boy's testicles will have desendend into the scrotum. This is something your baby's doctor will check when he is born. Baby is about 19.8 inches long, and weighs about 5 pounds now.
Pregnancy Week 35
Each day now, your little one gains weight, getting ready for that all important day when you get to meet! She weighs about 5.5 pounds, and is 20.25 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 36
Wow, the home stretch! You've made it! Just a few weeks left, if you have the average pregnancy. Baby continues to get ready for live on the outside by practicing breathing, sucking and swallowing. He weighs about 6 pounds and is around 20.5 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 37
Baby is now making cortisone, which is the hormone that will help his lungs mature enought to handle breathing air on his own. His lanugo, the fine hair he developed earlier, is starting to wear off on its own. He weighs about 6.5 pounds, and is approx 21 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 38
Most babies born anytime after this week, are considered full term, and have no difficulties at all. Baby may have long fingernails, in need of a trim, and a head full of hair at this point. The vernix is beginning to dissolve. Baby weighs approx 6.8 pounds, and is about 21.25 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 39
Baby is now in position for birth, and weighs about 7 pounds. She is about 21.5 inches long.
Pregnancy Week 40
Your baby may or may not be engaged in your pelvis at this point. A lot depends on whether you are a first time mom, or a repeater. Baby is usually lying with his head down, and his back against your abdomen. This is considered the "ideal" position for birth. He will probably weigh about 7.5 pounds and will be about 22 inches long! Hard to believe how much he's grown these past nine months, isn't it?
We are having twins! There were two strong little heartbeats and all was fine.I cannot believe it.
Marty Twins wow cool I guess my spreading the baby dust worked LOL..how many weeks are you I had embro transfer Dec 20th so I am in my 7th week with twins too..
I just got my results back and they said my HCG is over 900! The nurse said that I am very very pregnant and most likely I'm having twins! I am so happy - I go in for my ultrasound next Wed.
Nicki, LJ, & Audream - I am so excited for all of you to start your next cycle - I know that it's going to work - I wish you all the best of luck - I will pray for you:)
OMG!!! Congratulations to the two of you!! There must be something in the water in this forum cuz we are on a roll ladies!!! So very happy for you mommies!! Please keep us updated with future 411. Lisa, thank you so very much for your kind words and positive energy. We are hoping and praying to join your ranks!!!
O.k...who's next? There are so many of us now, I can't keep track!! Lol
Audrey I know... I can't keep up either. We have lots of newbies on the site.
Lisa - thanks for thinkin of me LJ and Audrey going into our cycles. It seems like so far away but March/April will be here in no time for all of us!!! I'm getting excited. It's got to work this time. I can't believe we may have another multiple with you!! That's so great.
Marty - glad your feeling a little better. Try to keep calm. And just remind yourself that everything is going to be fine. And don't worry about the ultrasound... it won't cause any harm. And it's probably the best thing to do being you have cramps. Good luck and keep us posted.
But LJ is like the queen puba of information and knows so much about all kinds of stuff. So don't worry... between all of us, your in good hands :)
I am going to the Dr.s tomorrow I have lots of swelling and lots of cramping. I called the Dr's office and they scheduled me for an ultrasound tomorrow. Im scared I hope this does not hurt my babies. :(
Marty - OHSS Ovarian Hyper stimulation syndrone usually only happens if you ARE pregnant. It causes severe bloating, pain and uncomfortableness(if that's a word). The solution is bed rest and plenty of fluids like gatorade. Good luck with the ultrasound and let us know.
Congratulations Louise - I had a feeling you were having more than one. Did I not say this is the year for multiples... WOW!
I pray all this baby dust follows us into March and April. I think I could handle twins...
Wow, congrats, to all of you. This gives me more hope and has really helped me make a decision. I have been struggleing with trying IVF again or adoption. As this will be our last try and if we do IVF there will be no money for adoption. Maybe I am being selfish but really want the genetic link with my husband. I know there are so many children out there but somehow my instints are telling me to just try again. I will be trying again in March as well. Am really worried about another MC but have to put things in gods hands. Also not sure if any of you are using donated eggs but if so you can deduct your IVF on your taxes. If you want the info email me at ***@****. Hope everyone has a great day today. Also, Selena I hope everything works out. I had a friend that bleed very heavy with her son for almost 8 weeks, but everything came out okay and her little boy is now 2 yrs. old. Stay positive you are in my prayers.
I am 38 and this is my first IVF-cycle. We moved forward with this route after 4 unsuccessful IUI's (1 with just monitoring, 1 with Letrozole, 1 with Clomid, and 1 w/Injectables). We have no children yet and have been married for over 5 years but a couple for over 11 years. My response to the IVF meds was borderline but because my estrogen levels were on target they went ahead and harvested 5 follicles. And as one doc said "this might be as good as it gets." (Unfortunately my FSH is borderline too). Out of the five 3 were mature and all fertilized. On 1/21 we transfered all three due to my age. 2 were of higher quality than one and our doc didn't think we had to worry about triplets. And I must tell you I feel strange even wishing for a certain number at this point. I want to give control up on that part of it and just focus on growing our family.
To provide some background in my fertility journey I wanted to mention that in October of 2006 I had a positive pregnancy after an IUI with injectables cycle. Unfortunately it ended up being ectopic (at least they suspected that anyway with the way my numbers rised slowly and I had to get the dreaded shot of methotextrate). This was one of the hardest days of my life. The pregnancy news also had reached me on my 38th b-day so it was a very loaded day emotionally.
Alas - I am trying to be positive and hope for the best with this cycle. Our insurance doesn't cover any of this so we really had to take a big, bold step and believe in what we are doing.
I've been experiencing cramping since DAY 2 after transfer and wondered if anyone else has experienced this? I guess cramping can mean you are or aren't pregnant. Boy - oh - boy is this a hard wait! Next Friday (2/2) I have my blood-test - but am thinking about testing at home mid-week.
Dont worry about the cramping they have told me that its related to pregnancy!! WOOO HOOOO
Hope we are both preggy.
Girls- I did not go to the ultrasound. My husband is a physician and he adviced against the ultrasound. He wants me to work less and stop stressing for everything. That's easy for him to say.. LOL...
Finally I wanted to say that this forun is full of baby dust, we are all on a row. Wouldnt it be great to have a one year IVF reunion with all the twins that keep coming? Boy that would be one great kids reunion...
MommySelena - Stay strong your going to be just fine.. :)
Hope Im next with another pair of twins God WILLING!!
PS- Is anyone here in Miami Florida? (just curious)
Take Care-XOXO Marty
Louise is the latest great twin news!!! CONTGRATS TO ALL NEW MOMMIES TO BE!!!
What a wonderful blessing to have found this forum. I have been so fulfilled in reading the responses posted on this site that I couldn't wait to post my own and become a part of the fam. Thanks. I am not a newbie to IVF, I have a wonderful 2 yr g/ 18 yr boy - natural (1 deceased girl in 1997). My hubby and I desires to add to the clain. We are thankful for this blessed opportunity to be in the elite group.
I am amongst the honored and am in the 2ww club.
What do you think!
I swear ladies, implantation is currently taking place. I am in such discomfort in my lower ab and back area. Have never felt cramps this intense with waiting for AF. And the nausea and queaziness started today too. Earlier, I was able to relieve it by lying down and eating a half of an apple. But once I got up again, it started all over. So again, I'm lying down.
Give me your best advice. I had 4 embryos transferred day 3. Grade b 1 8 cell, 2 7 cell and 1 5 cell. Could this be signs and symptoms of implantation and a positive result.
Can't wait to hear from you angels! Good luck to all you mommies and baby dust and prayers to all who are trying. NEVER give up. Faith the size of a mustard seed (that's one of two of my favorites) the other is All Things are possible through Christ who Strengthens US!
blessings
Lots of baby dust to you today!! Let us know how it went.
XOXOXO - Marty
This sisterhood is beautiful!
So glad to hear that your bleeding is lighter now. Like I said before, I think everything will be fine. Still praying for you. So...Sep 7...Virgos are great...I'm one!
Hi mstrex
Yeah!!! We have another 2ww buddy!! I'm so glad DH and you decided to give it another try!!
Marty,
Love your idea of the IVF reunion!!! That would be amazing!!
Welcome Spoonfrau & Mbraced,
Yes, more sisters!! So glad you found us. I'm telling you we have a very powerful prayer group right here. Mbraced love your atitude and strong beliefs! I am in total agreement and praying everday to be a woman of mountain moving faith!!!
So blessed to be a part of this awesome group of lovely ladies!!!
Hugs,
Audrey
This has been a long 2ww. I am still feeling weird and I don't go for my blood test till monday. I did a HPT this morning and it was negative so it has been an emotional day. I am hoping that it is wrong and that there are two little babies growing in there.
I wish you all luck in the next two week!! I can't wait to hear everyone's news!!
Congratulation to all your new Mommy's!!!
Take care
However I am debating taking another one this weekend. The let down is so hard that I honestly think I am going to wait this one out till 2/2. Dont be amazed if I change my mind in the next 30 seconds.. LOL My emotions are on speed lately! So what do you think?
Mstrx- There are so many of us now. WOW Welcome :):):)
Lets start a blood test chain. We can put the date and our name and every morning every single one of us can pray a very special prayer for that person!!
If agreed everyone send your BPT date and something specail beside it and I will put it together!!
Marty 2/2/2007 !! With God at my side this is the day I am blessed with the news of my babies!
Spoonfray 2/2/2007
and so on and so on....
XOXOXO Marty
I will definately join your chain. We can all use alittle extra blessings.
Sammyrae 1/29 we have all done what we can we now have to leave it up to god.
Bless you all thank you for your support
Love your idea of a blood test chain. Thanks for putting this together.
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Sammyrae 1/29 we have all done what we can we now have to leave it up to god.
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Keep posting them and I will keep adding them.
On Christmas day I was given a very special present it was a little Saint called St. Gerard. I light him all the time and pray often to him. He is the St. foor motherhood.
I thought you might want to pray to him also! Prayer and Hope is all we have left!
For Motherhood
Good St. Gerard, powerful intercessor before the throne of God, wonder-worker of our day, I call upon you and seek your aid. You know that my husband and I desire the gift of a child. Please present our fervent plea to the Creator of life from whom all parenthood proceeds and beseech him to bless us with a child whom we may raise as his child and heir of heaven. Amen.
On Christmas day I was given a very special present it was a little Saint called St. Gerard. I light him all the time and pray often to him. He is the St. foor motherhood.
I thought you might want to pray to him also! Prayer and Hope is all we have left!
For Motherhood
Good St. Gerard, powerful intercessor before the throne of God, wonder-worker of our day, I call upon you and seek your aid. You know that my husband and I desire the gift of a child. Please present our fervent plea to the Creator of life from whom all parenthood proceeds and beseech him to bless us with a child whom we may raise as his child and heir of heaven. Amen.
Sammyrae 1/29 we have all done what we can we now have to leave it up to god.
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
I really think the 2ww is one of the hardest things I've ever had to go through, and my heart goes out to all you ladies who are going through it now.
We are praying together, because as we to have power, it sometimes fails us because of our fleshly desires. Ladies, your spirit is pure and strong, tap into it and know that matters of the heart are delivered to the faithful and righteous. But remember, too, that GOD HAS HIS SEASON FOR ALL!. Our desires and reasoning to have IVF is solely because of my faith in God (being fruitful and multiplying for His purpose and Kingdom building). We had about 4 failed including 1 canceled before I conceived my daughter 2 years ago and 1 after her. But I attributed the failed to it not being my season. My testimony as to doing God's will can and will stand us all still to take notice, but that is for another time. We are already on a hormonial rollecoaster. But know ladies, that when your season comes, and it will come, you will know it and all will be unveiled to you. Keep your hearts pure and unharden. This is the only way your blessings will flow.
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Marty: February 7 - Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN!
And we will all continue to intecede for one another across the states and nations and waters through the airways directly to heaven!
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Audream
Thanks for the connection!
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Everyone.
But ladies, let me tell you. You can know from the first few days. As I posted this morning, I was having a hard bout. Well, my DH rushed home from our Early Learning Center to aid my symptoms. He is really being attentive to me. He massage my back, put a warm compress on my stomach, but it wasn't until he fed the little buggers that the symptoms went away. My stomach was definately empty. This is going to be a roller coaster ride that I am definately ready to conquer. I put myself on self bedrest for an additional day, because that was so totally unexpected and different from my daughter.
Is anyone else on their 2ww experiencing extremely early signs of implantation and motherhood!
Surviving The Wait To Learn If A Cycle Was Successful
Diane Clapp, BSN, RN
Whether you have tried to get pregnant without treatment or with drugs, IUI and/or IVF, the part of the cycle that involves waiting to hear the "news" about your cycle may be exhausting. Each day you may be monitoring your body for signs of early pregnancy or for signs that you feel may mean your menstrual bleeding will soon begin. It is like being on a rollercoaster of hope and fear. Consider the following survival tips:
Emotional Coping Strategies
· Limit the number of people you tell about your cycle and let them know how you will share the outcome of the cycle. Some couples tell their family and friends, "No news is bad news," to eliminate the need to call them with bad news.
· Decide in advance how you will handle questions from those you have told. Sometimes it helps to rehearse your responses.
· Decide with your partner how you want to receive the news about the cycle. For example, if you are having a blood test to determine if you are pregnant, decide where and to whom the results should be given. Some women want their husband's to give them the news, whether it is good or bad, versus hearing a message on the answering machine.
· Set time aside to talk with your partner about your feelings.
· Tell your partner what you will need if the news is not positive. Do you want to be distracted and go out to eat or to a movie, or do you want to be left alone? Do you want to talk about the next steps in treatment or options, or wait a few days? Give your partner specifics on this- he can't read your mind.
· Treat yourself by spending time doing the things you enjoy the most: preparing a wonderful meal, taking long walks or curling up and reading a good book.
· Protect yourself emotionally. For example, don't plan on going to a dinner party given by a pregnant friend the day you expect to get your pregnancy test results.
· Take slow, deep breaths when you are feeling anxious. This basic technique can assist you physiologically, as well as being mentally calming.
· Try reframing your thoughts. This is very helpful when you are experiencing negative thoughts or if your thoughts are driving you crazy by alternating between thinking you are or aren't pregnant. For example, the thought "The test will be negative and I'll never be pregnant," may end up as "I am open to the possibility of being pregnant and I'm doing everything I can to make that happen."
Sammyrae 1/29 we have all done what we can we now have to leave it up to god.
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
Mbraced 2/2/2007- Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Marty 2/2/2007 With God at my side this is the day I am blessed with the news of my babies!
Mbraced 2/2/2007- Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN
-Keeping the dates in order~~
WOMEN WHO PRAY TOGETHER WILL HAVE CHILDREN TOGETHER!!
(made that one up) guess you can tell .. LOL
I told you I want to test tonight. My anxiety is building real fast, sitting at my office counting the minutes until getting home.. It has been 7 days today and because I tested negative on Monday I know that all the HCG from the shot is gone if there is any its BABY HCG. I just want to see the little + even if its VERY light.. HELP!!!
I am seeking God to bless us all as we wait it out on this emotional roller coaster ride. I bought a 3 pack HPT and since the first one was negative on the 9th day after the transfer, I am sooooo tempted to take it again on Saturday or Sunday morning.
The good thing is that no one except my husband knows that we are undergoing this procedure... So thank the Lord none of my friends and relatives are calling us asking "what's going on". I did that before and that seemed to make matters worse for me.
Blessings to all...
Lisa's story is giving me a lot of hope right now. She had a negative home test after 9 days and is now pregnant with twins. God is awesome. I pray that God's blesses us all with good baby news!!!
Today, I'm having similar cramps that I had on day 5 and 6 after the transfer. I am praying that is a good sign. No sign of bleeding or anything. We'll see.
This place is the best because I dont talk to anyone about this its so personal and people have their own thoughts on the issue however not until they are in our shoes should they be judging. The only people that know are my 2 teenage children, my hubby, my Mom my sister and my boss. I have found it easier to not say anything until I am sure however then all I wanted to say I had to keep bottled up until I found you girls. The road has gotten much easier...
THANK YOU
XOXOXO Baby dust!! Marty
I can't tell you not to do the test but here's a thought. What if you do the test and you still don't see any BABY HCG, yet? Most likely you will continue to worry and lord knows worrying doesn't do our body, mind or spirit any good. Perhaps you can take a couple of days off from worrying about the test and instead focus on a positive outcome that will emerge on 2/2/07! I'm rooting for you Marty. Tonight I'm going to see a movie with some girlfriends to have a little distraction. I think having some pleasant distractions right now are very necessary right now.
Hold tight sister - but know that I support you whatever you decide!
I wanted to say welcome and that I am holding you in my thougths and prayers. I, like you, am so grateful to have found this arena of acceptance and understanding.
Warmly,
Spoonfrau
I wish you the best too! I thank God for you all!
Finally- I can talk to someone who is going through EXACTLY what I'm going through at the very same time!
Marty - good girl. I can tell from your post your spirit is up! And since you don't mind how many you get pregnant with.... I'm giving you the vooodooo curse of multiples :) Good luck for one or more than one :) !!!! Let us know if you test at home or if your going into RE on 2/2 for a b/t. PS - I'm not in Miami but my cousin is so I visit her and family in fl from time to time. I'm in NJ! PS- I have the St. Gerard charm hanging in my pocketbook and rub it all the time. I'm with you on that.
Mbraced - those are all good symptoms. Cramps may be implantation but may be from meds too so try not to get yourself too crazy. Your embies sound great though. good sized and looks like you put more than the 2 or 3 that is normally put back. So I am praying for you that it works and you get your good news. Hang in there. Keep the faith!!!
MSTREX - still sorry about your loss but glad you, me, LJ and Audrey will be together in March/April. Hang in there girl. We're in it together!
Sammi- sorry you had a bfn. But keep faith for the b/t. Maybe it was too early. Forgot when your ET was but hold on. I know it's so tough and so disappointing. We're here no matter what the news.
Mamasita- good luck! 2 embies is great and with acupuncture and all... hoping for the best for you. good luck on the 29th!
Can you feel the strength and love of this forum? Amazing!!
Ladies, can you please stick around for our (Nicki, LJ, mstrex and I) 2ww in March??
Nicki and Marty,
I also have the St Gerard prayer card next to my statue of the Virgen de Guadalupe. Along with these, there is always a candle burning for all of us and a candle will continue to burn until all of our prayers are answered...!!!
Here is a bit of the prayer to San Gerardo en espanol:
Por intercesion de vuestro siervo San Gerardo Mayela dignaos bendecir y librar de todo peligro al hijo de mis deseos, a fin de que socorrido por vuestra poderosa mano pueda recibir la gracia del bautismo. Amen
Welcome back mstrex! I am glad you are going to try again, I know it's a very difficult decision. I too have to pay everything out of my own pocket. I really hope you have success this time and together this will be our last time...
Hugs to you.
P.S. Nicki & Audrey still no AF...Argh!
Today- I feel very back to normal physically, like all meds are out of my system (except of course the progesterone). No cramps, no bloating, no food cravings... No signs of pregnancy what so ever. I hope that's not a bad sign. Does anyone know? If I were pregnant wouldn't I have some physical symptoms. I haven't given up all hope, but because I know my body so well it really doesn't feel likely that I'm prego.
I may take a second HPT on Saturday morning (TOMORROW!!!) Actually, I know I'm gonna take it :-)! Maybe this will help ease the pain of getting bad news on Monday.
Alright ladies I wish everyone the very best! If things don't work out with me, I will be back at it in March. Feb will be my down month. My goal is to get pregnant before I turn 40 in August, but I don't know how much $$$ I can keep forking over B 4 then.
ANY ONE DUE TO TEST ON MONDAY?? HAD MY FET ON 15TH JANUARY AND SINCE 17TH JANUARY HAVE SUFFERED AWFUL CRAMPS TO THE POINT WHERE THEY ACTUALLY FEEL LIKE CONTRACTIONS LIKE TIGHTENING PAINS IN MY TUMMY ALSO HAD PERIOD LIKE PAINS ON AND OFF FOR DAYS, FEELING REALLY TIRED AND TEARFUL NO BLEEDING JUST FEELING A BIZ DIZZY NOW AND AGAIN SO NOT SURE IF MY PERIOD IS ON THE WAY OR IF THEY ARE SYMPTOMS??
TAKING PROGESTERONE TWICE A DAY ONCE EVERY 12 HOURS AND CYCLOGEST 3 TIMES A DAY NOT SURE IF THEY STOP YOUR PERIODS OR NOT??
DOCTOR SAYS MY UTERUS MAY BE CONTRACTING NOT SURE WHAT HE MEANT BY THAT THIS TIME I FOUND THE FET VERY UNCOMFORTABLE I DONT KNOW IF THE PAIN IS RELATED TO THAT OR NOT
CAN ANYONE OUT THERE SHED SOME LIGHT ON THIS FOR ME IM DRIVING MYSELF CRAZY
ANY INFO SO MUCH APPRECIATED THIS SITE IS JUST GREAT
THANKS VERY MUCH
SHAZ
THX XOXOX Marty
Thanks for support ladies. and for the hugs too...
YES girls I took another one last night (today is one week of my transfer) and it was Negative.. :(:(:( Didnt bring me down as much because again I tested too early however Im starting to get pretty scared.
NickiMike- I dont have a positive yet but Thank you for the voodoo of multiples!! I have a true believe that St Gerard will grant us our wishes.
Nicki/LJ/MStrex - Promise to check in regarless on your 2WW. (PROMISE)!!
MamaSita - Like you can read above I did test last night. Try not to put that much empahasis on the urine test. Think that the blood test will be positive and that God always has a plan for us. We can beg and plead but we have to have faith in HIM. Try going to church on Sunday that always helps me. Sometimes I just stop at an church, go inside sit down and talk to God for a while. If you want to take the test tomorrow I cant tel you anything because Im not one to follow instructions. However you can write to me and if you like I can give you my AIM which I am always on via cell phone.
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
Marty 2/2/2007 With God at my side this is the day I am blessed with the news of my babies!
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Mbraced 2/7/2007- Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN
I was transferred 3 on the 19th. I guess because of my age. I was scared to do so because my husband wanted 2 only but the Dr said that the third one did not look like it would make it and would have died in or out so why not take the chance of putting it in so I did. I didnt have to think alot about it. When I told my husband he freaked out and I also told him that the Dr said something about if the third lived we could take that one out then he freaked even more and said NO WAY. That could hurt the other 2 and could damage the placenta and the cervix. Regardless i was NOT going to do that hehehehehehehe.... Just glad to know he was on the same page as me.
Hope you're feeling better...I know you said you might be coming down with the flu. Any signs of AF yet? I am overly emotional and have a pimple...so I know she's on her way any day now!
Hi Marty,
I am Mexican, Philipino, German and French...a real mutt!! Lol But I speak Spanish and retain a lot of the Mexican culture (por mi mama). My husband has Blue Cross PPO and it covered about $4,000 of our expenses. Every little bit helps!
Welcome Shaz,
You have found a great support system and lots of sisters who are also testing on Monday. Check out Marty's List.
LJ- i didn't get AF yet either?? Ugh. So frustrating. Audrey, how bout you? I thought I was going to get it yesterday or today but no. Not yet. Well, than that means the 3 of us are more close in our cycle. Who will be the first to get AF. Race ya!! :)
To all the newbie testers. I know the weekend will be tough. Marty if you test tomorrow - b/c you can't restrain yourself :) I hope you see a positive. That goes to the rest of you all testing Monday and next week!
It's freezing in NJ today. ABSOLUTELY FREEZING!!!
Well last night I did it again. (Honestly I think Im the worse one here NO SELF CONTROL) I tested and it was negative. Yesterday was one week from my transfer which was done on 1/19 I was feeling all the menstrual cramps and honestly it came to a point that I broke down in tears. The GOOD part is my period did NOT come and I am now cramping like before. What a rollercoaster of emotions this is. My husband does not understand why I get crazy then nice then sad -- He must think Im nuts when in reality its my hormones that have gone completely nuts. I am normally very outgoing, very talkative and I find myself being very quiet and pensive lately.
I wanted to ask the preggy girls if you felt your menstrual cramps at all? Also did I test too soon again? Can it be wrong again? I have not told my husband about the HPT because he did not want me to do it. I feel bad about not telling him but it will only make things worse. I was sooo depressed yesterday and Im starting to feel much better today THANKS TO THE CRAMPING AGAIN.
Also I an feeling on my pubic bone something like thick there. Is this normal like somehting there has grown.
I was suppose to get my period yesterday Im a little clock every 26 days exactly. Glad I did not get it.
I hope you are all doing well and I pray to God that we are all preggy soon.
Believe me when I say that you have all become very special to me these past few days. I have needed to talk and cry and laugh and you have all been there.
Thank you all for caring.
Marty XOXOXOXOXOXO
PS- Welcome all the newbies this is a great place to be!
SammyRae GOOD LUCK on Monday I am praying for you !
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Marty 2/2/2007 With God at my side this is the day I am blessed with the news of my babies!
Mbraced 2/2/2007- Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN
Mama Sita 1/29/2007-God please sprinkle me with some baby dust :-)
Spoonfrau 2/2/2007 --- I am a mother at heart ... let me please be a mother on earth ...
Marty 2/2/2007 With God at my side this is the day I am blessed with the news of my babies!
Mbraced 2/7/2007- Obebience and Faithfulness will always render a positive blessing, in Jesus Name, who intercedes on our behalf, we all pray, AMEN
don't get discouraged. I tested every day after the transfer started at day 4 and got BFN until around day 8-9 and even then the line was very faint. So head up and don't worry. You sound like you are having all the right symptoms. So just postive thoughts and Hang in there....
I've been taking my Progesterone shots (just like the doctor told me to), and it's always been very painful for me. Then yesterday I had huge welts all over the injection sights that iched a lot. Turns out my doctor said I'm allergic the Progesterone oil - has this ever happened to anyone?
Marty - Before I knew that I was pregnant I had a very wierd feeling in my stomach - it wasn't cramps so much, but there was pressure and it was a little painful. I didn't know what to make of it. My boobs were also very very sensitive - which I thought could have been a reaction from the progesterone, but now I don't think so. Other then that, I didn't have any other signs, I felt normal.
Good luck to everyone who is going to test, I know how hard the wait is - stay positive:)
Lisa