Curious

I have a feeling that i am pregnant but im not sure, i'm really scared to find out because i'm too young to have a baby. I have been really tired lately, sometimes have headaches, backaches, moody and i feel that im starting to gain alil weight ! Right after i had sexual intercourse i had my period a couple of days after. If i am pregnant i think i would be 5weeks at least . My question is . .is this all in my head or should i be worried??? i never had sore breast, morning sickness, food craving and ect.

[AUSTIN431]

you said you had a period since the last time you had sex that usually means not pregnant so are you worried because you missed the next one? your symptoms can be from anything stress ,pms or your mind just playing tricks on you since your worried about pregnancy your have pregnancy symptoms .I don't think your pregnant of course i can't say 100% your not so if your still worried you should buy a pregnancy test that way you know for sure

[mothertobe96]

well thanks for ur advice but i finally took a test and i am pregnant . .i cried my eyes out nd im still cryn i just wonder how imma tell my mom !:(

[AUSTIN431]

i'm sorry you have to go through this so young hopefully your mom will be understanding i would be a little disappointed if one of my daughters got pregnant at 18 but to me the most important thing would be how they handled what happens after you need to decide whats best for you and the baby and move forward from that

[mothertobe96]

Yeah she flipped out right now she still not talkin to me and to be honest im younger then 18 . I feel so stupid i told the babies father and he fainted but even tho he said he'll be there to help out its better said then done i dont believe in abortions but im thinking hard about adoptions im not sure cause i want to keep it but i no one to talk to my family isnt talkin to me right now im just so stressed out !  

[AUSTIN431]

i'm sure you understand why but they might just need some time its alot to take in maybe if you show your parents that your going to grow up from now on and keep going to school getting good grades and maybe get a after school job depending on your age and support the baby yourself as much as you can then maybe they will change their minds and be supportive it would be really hard to do it on your own the dad usually doesn't stick around so you really need your family if thats not the best option then there is nothing wrong with adoptions there is more than one kind that can give you different levels of involvement in your childs life so it doesn't have to be goodbye forever if you don't want that

[mothertobe96]

Yeah, and the dad saids he's gonna stickk around he has one job and he's looking for a second one and yeah o thought about adoption alot but he always get mad when i mentioin it . . I just want whts best for my baby. . i believe that i can take care of it on my own but with my mom not talkin to me its gonna be hard . .his mom was upset but she got over  it i just wish my mom could do that ! I just feel like im in alot of stress im too young to deal with all of this

[RockRose]

Is he going to marry you?

[RockRose]

I had read your profile and assumed you were 18 - but just now saw you are "younger" than that.  

By the 96,  is that your birth year?  So are you 14?

[Calbee]

If you need someone to talk to I can be here for you I am also young and pregnant and this isn't my first pregnancy

[mothertobe96]

thanks and no he's not

[Clysta]

From what I've read, you don't sound like you're in any position or situation to care for a child. Do you work? Do you have your own place? If not, do you intend to stay with your parents, or will they let you. If they won't, will you live with this boy? Just because he says he'll stick around doesn't mean anything. Just wanting to keep a child doesn't mean you should and if you don't have the means DO NOT keep it. I know this is easy to say, but don't put yourself in a situation you can't do.

If you're too young to have a baby WHY were you having sex or why didn't you use protection? Sex is MEANT for reproduction, it's not just there to make you feel good.

[mothertobe96]

um yeah to be honest i am pretty young,i live with my dad but is bout to move back with my mom i have i guess u can say a job and the daddy has two.Im still in school and so is the father. Me nd him has talked about moving together but most likely thats not gonna happen . And deep down i kno i can take care and support this child i guess the fact that my teen days will be over if i keep it. .We did use protection its kinda weird b/c when we did have sex sometimes it wasnt protection and now when we use protection this comes up and i know alot of teen moms say this but "i didn't mean for this to happen" and ur right thts why im not gonna rely on the dad b/c i dont kno if he'll stick around but i grew up with this dude and me n him has been dating for about 2 years now and i kno he would just leave me with a baby alone thats not the kind of person he is and the question about whether my parents will let me stay . . thts the whole point of moving back with my mom b/c just like wht he did to my sister when she got pregnant he kicked me nd her out so yeah !