Desperate to get pregnant after Ectopic Pregnancy

I'm so desperate to get pregnant again, I'm 37 years old have 2 full term pregnancy, ( but my First born pass after only 15 hr live) My 2nd born is now 9 yrs old a very happy boy who also want a baby brother :( ,  6 times miscarriage and 1 Ectopic Pregnancy..can i get pregnant Full term and delivery a beautiful baby again...??? Please anybody know how..??

[Torra325]

I am 31 and had two ectopics before finally having a successful pregnancy. I'm 18w3d today.  I think sometimes those things just happen and there's no explanation.  Were all your m/c and EP consecutive?  You may want to look into having a dye test done to see if there's blockage in your tubes, etc.  Talk to your dr. and see what your options are.

[Torra325]

I am 31 and had two ectopics before finally having a successful pregnancy. I'm 18w3d today.  I think sometimes those things just happen and there's no explanation.  Were all your m/c and EP consecutive?  You may want to look into having a dye test done to see if there's blockage in your tubes, etc.  Talk to your dr. and see what your options are.

[Tanker Chic]

I've never had a m/c but I had an ectopic in feb/mar 07, which resulted in loss of my right fallopian tube.  Now I'll be 32wks pg tomorrow.  All my pg were the result of IUI.  

I think you should see a fertility specialists to help you sort all this out.  Best of luck to you.  

[Dheejoe]

Thank you so much for your advice and Congratulation for your PG btw what is IUI ? i lost my right fallopian tube also and my ectopic was Jan 2005, it's 3 years already w/ no symphtom of pg :(

[Dheejoe]

Thanks for your comment and advice Torra also Congratulation for your pg..anyway..yes after i got my second child  in 1998 i got m/c every year for 6 times and last was ectopic in Jan 2005 and my dr said nothing wrong with my uterus..i guess i just have to keep trying and pray..

[Torra325]

Well good luck to you and don't get down on yourself.  That will only make things worse.  When we first found out I was pg. back in Oct. 2006, I was excited, but so surprised at how fast it happened.  Then within the next 4 weeks it was all over with.  We never really had any answers and I never really felt like I got any closure.  Well, low and behold in June 2007 I found out we were pg. again and I made it about a week further than I had with the previous one and then I started bleeding and ultimately ended up in ER with unbelievable pain.  I ended up losing my left tube that time.  By that time I was starting to think that it may just not be the right time or maybe I just wasn't supposed to have children.  So, I told myself I we weren't pg. in the next 3 months (that was the time frame that it took us the first two times) then I was giving up.  Come Sept. I had convinced myself that it probably wasn't going to happen so I relaxed and BAM! that's when we found out I was pg. again.  So, I guess to sum it up....good things just take time.  Don't lose faith.

[jifnif]

i am so sorry for all of your losses.  i have had 2 m/c and 1 ectopic.  i have 2 children and i just found out i am prego.  i had a methotrexate shot for an ectopic on november 9th and my numbers were down to 0 w/ in 2 weeks.  i just found out i am prego..i will have news tomorrow to confirm if it is a viable pregnancy or not.  it is defintiely not an ectopic and that is the best news ever.  now if it is a good one....even better.  there is hope

[sue411]

Is anybody out there 40 years old or over and trying to get pregnant?  I have 2 children 12 and 9... i had an ectopic pregnancy in 2005 which resulted in me losing my right fallopian tube and ovary.  

I have not been able to get pregnant.  I keep thinking I'm too old but I've always wanted another baby... I will be 40 in a couple of months and feel that this is my only chance now.  Anybody out there have a similar situation?  sue

[gritct]

Hello everyone. I read all of this comments about ectopic pregnancy some got pregnant some aren't. Sadly for me, 23 years old got married at 20 years old and planned to have a baby with my husband, yes I got pregnant so quicked but also had a miscarriage so quick last year 3 months along. Then we tried to get pregnant again few months after that and sadly, I had an ectopic pregnancy and lost my right tube Jan. of 2009. I was so hurt and depressed thinking that I may not be able to get pregnant anymore. 6 Months later, we tried to get pregnant again but until now I'm still not pregnant yet which is really break my heart. I love childrens alot and I felt so empty without a child. What could I do? I'm just showing myself to my husband that I'm happy and hopeful but deep inside, absolutely Im not. I don't know, probably only God can answer me. Or I'll probably just planning on adopting a new born child from the other country if ever I can't get get pregnant no more. Thanks for reading good luck and Godbless

[playboy5]

I'm 24 years old I have been with my partner 3 year I got pregnant jan this year the best day of my life sadly cut short at 3 months on march 4 lost my baby to an eptopic I've been trying for nearly 4 months am I worrying 4 nothing or do I need to see some one I feel really left out my boyfriends brother is haveing a baby and I despreatly want my boy friend to have the baby he really want what options do I have

[TakeCare15]

I had a MC two years ago and an ectopic pregnancy three months ago. I had my right tube removed. I have been trying for a baby since three years ago but to no avail. I am extremely sad, but still trying. I hope everyone hang on and just pray for the time to come. Good luck!

[kwala]

i've had a ectopic a month ago first time ever alredy have 2 kids and had lost that one which would have been my third i strted my period a month later still witn on more cycles i never hd nything removed one shot and that was all so i hope being thourgh it sort of came out on its on i hope i can have a normal pregnancy cn anyone help wit my question

[natjaden]

I had an ectopic in 1999 and I lost one tube the doctor told me I could still get pregnant but I didn't try anymore as I got divorced. In 2003 surprise I got pregnant with my son he is 6 now.
At 40 in Dec 09 I got pregnant the first time trying but miscarried in Feb 10
but I am pregnant again 3 months after my miscarriage.
I did use maca and vitex to get pregnant both time however I think I miscarried my twins because I stopped the vitex cold turkey and it cause a drop in my progesterone level.
There is hope.

[givemehope23]

i had ectopic pregnancy january 2011 and they had to remove my right tube because of the damage, i have irregular period and everytime i missed my monthly visit and take the home pregnancy test kit and its negative it breaks my heart over and over i have to go through all this every single month i missed my period its like a torture. i wan't to have kids so bad even just one i will be the most happiest woman in the world, but im not having any luck trying for almost a year now.. my husband doesn't know i cried myself everynight for wanting to have a baby so much.