Final Update

For those whpo followed my story, thank you for all the advice you gave.  My GF had the baby on 4/8 and I found out he wasn't mine...  This has been the most painful time in my life and encourage those who aren't sure if their BF's didn't father their child to be honest.  Nothing hurts more than holding a child all night, watching him breathe, and falling in love.
This is definitely and hard time for me and probably will continue for a long time.  Agaiin, thank you to those who were open minded and did not attack as if I were trying to not step up.

1Love

[melimeli]

ummm are you still with her?  Are you taking care of the child?  You can fall in love and be a father to a child that isn't yours.  But if you don't trust her and it isn't going to last you will just do more harm to this child when you exit his life...  time heals all wounds... god will hold you up until you can on your own..

[646Dad]

Actually, the crazy part is we broke up last month after I got the results and I just found out she's getting married Þo a guy she hasn't dated since the 9th grade.  I honestly thinks she's doing it b/c she doesn't want to look bad.  So no we're not together