Help! 3 healthy children, 3 consecutive miscarriages?

[mintay]

Can anyone help me?  I have 3 healthy children, twins who are 7 and a 3 year old.  I would like one more child, but have had 3 miscarriages in a row.  My 1st I was 13 weeks along, and had seen a healthy heart beat at 8 weeks via ultrasound.  I did not bleed or cramp when the baby died, and had a D&C.  The 2nd I was 8 weeks along, and wasn't sick, so I knew something was wrong.  I bled and passed it on my own.  The 3rd I was 15 weeks.  The baby looked fine at both 8 weeks and 12 weeks!  My doctor did an ultrasound both times.  Again, as with the 1st I did not bleed or cramp at all.  I have a D&C scheduled in a couple of days.  I am 31 years old, have never had any health problems, and never had any complications with my previous pregnancies.  (They have also all been with the same father.)  I workout regularly, but with this last pregnancy I did not even workout "just in case".  I would still love another one, but I don't know if I can emotionally go through any more of this!  I also get very sick with my pregnancies, and was sick with both the 1st and the 3rd.  I don't know if I should continue or throw in the towel.  Has anyone else had a similar experience?  Thanks.

[mom1113]

I am also 31 and wanting to have a third child.  I have an 8 and 3 year old and just had to have a d and e done 6 weeks ago due to a birth defect.  Just wanted you to know I understand your frustration.  Have your dr. run a test to make sure all of your levels are right before you try again.  Good luck...:-)